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US Secretary of State, John Kerry representing a country which makes Genghis Khan look like a wimp when it comes to illegal invasions, still retains the prize for jaw dropper of the decade:

"You just don't, in the 21st century, behave in 19th century fashion by invading another country on completely trumped up pretext", he pontificated on CBS' "Face the Nation." 

It really is enough to take your breath away,- the gall of this idiot.  Does he assume we are all idiots ?



President Obama spoke in Brussels on Wednesday on the Russia-Ukraine situation. At one point, in seeking to shame Russia for its actions, Mr. Obama actually went so far as to try and legitimize America's catastrophic actions in Iraq, so as not to appear hypocritical in his comments. His words:

"Moreover, Russia has pointed to America's decision to go into Iraq as an example of Western hypocrisy… But even in Iraq, America sought to work within the international system. We did not claim or annex Iraq's territory. We did not grab its resources for our own gain. Instead, we ended our war and left Iraq to its people and a fully sovereign Iraqi state that could make decisions about its own future."

Facts: America ran roughshod over the international community to get that war going. If an invasion and ten-year occupation isn't annexation, then nothing is. Companies like Halliburton/KBR absolutely grabbed Iraq's resources, because their oil was supposed to "pay for the war," and there were gas lines in Iraq for years after the invasion, because those companies sat on that oil like it was their own private piggy bank… which it was, as it turns out. And as for the state we left Iraq in, thousands upon thousands of people have been killed in the sectarian strife left in our wake. They aren't making decisions about their future. They're running for their lives.

That this president dared to attempt to paper over the horrific smash-and-grab war crime that was America's invasion of Iraq is not merely disgusting; it is dangerous in the extreme, because we are doomed to repeat what we allow ourselves to forget.




I have been well and truly fucked

for doing good deeds for others

When you help others out of a bad spot and all they 

do is abuse you in return,

 it seems to always end badly for the kind hearted

who was simply trying to do

'the decent thing.'

by John Bellamy


I have been screwed out of over £1,000 this winter by local gay men who were going to do business for me ( new double glazing etc ) and they have all walked off with my money and I am truly struggling financially.  It really dissapoints when this happens as in two cases of loss, I was trying to do the decent thing and help these guys when they needed the business and it ends with them stealing my money.

What does one have to do ?  You do the right thing and get fucked over.  You turn them away and say no - sort yourself out - and you get damnation for being unspiritual and treated as scum because you would not help them.  What makes it worse is that one of these guys I have helped feed,  given food parcels to and generally tried to help him and this week - some would say it is my own fault,  I have once again - FOR THE SECOND TIME - been screwed out of £400 which I desperately do not have - by the same guy I tried to help before and who screwed me and one wonders - when the hell will I learn and stop being such an easy touch.   So that is now £1,350 I have lost at a time when I am really struggling financially and it makes me madder than hell.    I partly blame myself,  but also blame those who deliberately screwed me knowingly - even though they know I am a good man with the best of intentions and I hope and pray that karma comes soon and grabs them by the balls and they see the error of their ways and repent ( too biblical sounding perhaps ... )  or else I have much darker pictures in my head of what I would like to see happen to them and I choose not to entertain those thoughts but I am - deeply - 
DEEPLY - upset and hurt yet again and at a big financial loss through trying to help others who are less fortunate than myself. So that's it., No more helping others, No more Mr. Nice Guy as I am truly - sobbingly pissed off and broke broke broke and while I am trying to control my anger, I am angry. I AM ANGRY and I am pissed off.  

To day I also received a couple of abusive e mails - once again - from people who asked to be on my mailing list in both cases several years ago,  and now turn really abusive and bitchy rather than simply ask to be removed from my data base - and I really do not understand the fucked up attitude of some people who then throw their stuff in my face and scream abuse at me.  These are also people I have never even met.

It makes me sick and tired of dealing with the public when so many people who seem to have some kind of mental health issues choose to take it out on innocent people who are trying, in whatever way possible, to do the right thing.

So no more helping others. If you want something - you pay up front - handsomely - as my time is money and my time is precious to me and enough of being fucked over for being a kind and thoughtful man.  Enough.




This e mail below was anonymously placed on Trip Advisor (TA) - which absolutely astounded me that TA allowed such material to be posted on their site and that they did nothing about it until I complained - and obviopsly I have no idea who this is other than his name on TA was TOM H and as I have no Tom H booked into Hamilton Hall in December - when he claims to have stayed - so I do not know who he is. Have a read and see what you think, and see how some bitter and twisted people behave and what some of us have to put up with when this is the kind of response - ANONYMOUSLY DONE - some people get great joy out of throwing their  shit at others.

When I first read it I was stunned, and then I re read it and laughed my head off as it is just so silly - and while I may be considered pushy - as I do not take fools lightly and not everyone like me, but then, when you are in the public eye it is easy for people like this to take cheap pops at me and my venue while being cowardly and hide their identity behind a fake name and behind their computer screens.  Claiming as he does that Hamilton Hall is an apartment with only one bathroom is just weird.  He is also a coward that he cannot face me with his concerns and talk face to face and we all know why he has to hide behind his computer - because he is precisely that - a coward who cannot face me... period. He is not man enough.  

Here is his e mail below:-



A very basic guest house, dark and smelly from the dog - in no other hotel dogs have access to all public rooms including dining room - just disgusting !

You have to share the small bathroom with all other mostly very old and not so clean guests, and the owner'sC
attitude is very dominating all the time, you always have the feeling, that you do something wrong, because he controlls his guest's behave all the time. Hamilton Hall is not a hotel, it is a tiny private apartment with several rooms - that's it. He offers different sexual themed weekends, like wanking-weekends and so on, but he ask you to for no attitude, this means, you have to be ready to play with old and fat man, if not, you have to leave, because you have not the right attitude in the owner's eyes.....All the picturers on his website are just fiction. The majority of his customers are around 60-70 years old, massive overweighted and mosty smelly. And he expect "lip service" during a wanking-weekend, this is compleetely off topic, when the theme is mutual wanking. Think about all this before you make an reservation and read thre owners's comments from other customers experiences..... In all other hotels worldwide, you credit card will be charged during your checkout - he debit your creditcard before you arrive - so strange !!


John Comments:  

I have had
scores of supportive e mails from you guys commenting on the mental health and silliness of this guys e mail and how his lies are so childish.  Many of you have shared your thoughts and your dreams about Hammy Hall and what it means to you and offering support.  It is greatly appreciated and I think we all know how there is a ton of mental health issues in the gay community and some, like this Tom H. sees fit to throw his atitude at others because - obviously - he didn't get everything to his satisfaction.  Oh poor lovie... I hope he learns to grow up and smell the shit he is shoveling and that when Karma comes and hits him in the face,  it will be all of his own making.

I do feel desperately sorry for this man as he will go through life being constantly disappointed and let down if he expects everyone and everything to come up to his view of life, death and the universe;-   and chances are he is a shallow, insecure man with few friends and this might have something to do with why he has such a bad attitude and view of things.  

In order to slag me off he has had to reduce himself to telling blatant lies about my venue which are just laughable and actually quite pathetic.

How sad that he is not man enough to be truthful and honest and he reduces his mentality to that of a child having to fight dirty with lies and this dishonours him.  

He has proven for us all that he is definately unworthy of any care and attention from us and I shall not be offering him a free weekend so we can chat and sort out his problems, as when the chips are down;-  in his case;-  
I don't care , it simply is not worthy of my time and efforts. 

John Bellamy




'We have all been in abusive relationships, and sometimes we were the one being abused.'

Marianne Williams










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