Sunday May 24 , 2015







A LETTER FROM GOD - by Scoobius Pip


please - read and listen to the words, they are beautiful and puts the responsibility firmy in our own hands.


This video is amazing - watch it and realise THIS IS REAL -
no computer graphics but tons of real people actually really doing what you see... 


If you want a tear in your eye, watch this very sweet short youtube link






This e mail below arrived in my In Box - take a read and see my answer to it below:

Please can you tell me whether transgendered men are welcome at Hamiltion Hall, or whether I would be only welcome at one of your days earmarked for lesbians only ?

My answer was:-

Hi David.   Thanks for contacting Hamilton Hall

Transgender / Cross Dressers etc. are welcome all year at Hamilton Hall.  We do not host lesbian events and never have – not sure where you got that idea from.  We have organised special weekends just for TG / CD etc.  and hope to do so in the future, but it seems to be  a very hard market to get into – maybe you could suggest some places to advertise ?

You are welcome at any time.  John

He replied:-

Hi John, Could you clarify; your website says that clothes are an option.

”Hamilton Hall is a men only venue offering Dinner, B&B and offers workshops, seminars and chill out periods specializing in sexual, spiritual and self development of mind, body and soul of gay and bisexual men.
It is a clothing optional venue .  It is inappropriate to mix the sexes in a venue aimed at naked men,   as this would cause embarrasment , distress and sexual confusion for many of those attending.” 

How does this work out with the men if my body is still female?  With the special weekends for TG/CD, are gay men excluded?  David

My answer was:-

Dear David:  If your body is still female then you would be asked to keep your clothes on. It does state CLOTHING OPTIONAL – and as a men only venue, and as you are physically still female,  clothing would be required.  If you still have the appearance of a female – mannerisms, voice, clothing etc.  Hamilton Hall would not be right for you as it would make the other guests feel uncomfortable to have a women around – no reason why it should – but we do have to cater the the group setting while also appreciating the individual.

This is not something I have ever needed to clarify as we have never had a pre op female to male transsexual want to go naked in a hotel for men before. All female to male have been dressed and no one has ever known – as it is none of the other guests business and the customer has not seen fit to share that with others, and it has never been a problem. 

Does that answer your question.  It is absolutely not a reason for concern from me or my staff – and we are hoping to be providing weekends just for those who ‘ dress with style’  - whether pre op or post op,  or those who just like to dress accordingly.  Hamilton Hall offers a non judgemental attitude towards life, death and the universe and you are very welcome.   In Peace  John

He replied:-

Thanks John, but I feel discriminated against. I shall take this up with Stonewall.  David

To which I replied with just one word :



I thought all this just a little odd and decided to google his e mail address and discovered that he is a local Bournemouth man and here are some wab pages dedicated to his ramblings against gay marriage and he is not a Transexual / Cross Dresser or any such thing. It is all bullshit and he is a so called  'Christian'  who is just trying to stir up trouble.  However - I did not bite and he can do exactly what he likes. 


Here are some web pages and he is one David Skinner:-


North Wales Calendar of Christian Events


This is a real sign that we are not out of the woods as yet when we assume that because we have laws that protect us, there will not be those who will oppose and deny and damn - using religion as an excuse - and this is the most laughable attempt at - something - I am not sure what - I have heard for a while, as this man is up to something and it is worrying but comical,  while at the same time it is  the most unenlightened kind of bigotry imaginable and using religion as a tool is delusional and so Un Christian it goes completely against Jesus when - according to that massively edited and manipulated book,  it states Jesus as saying -

' Love thy neighbour as thy self.'

It does not say

Love thy neighbour but not if he is black, lesbian, gay, muslim or anything else that is not white Christian...' - 

and this  manipulation of the Biblical meaning is what causes trouble and creates disharmony within the church and for the genuine followers who know how wrong this kind of person is to use holy teachings to suit their own bigoted view of reality and does no one any good at all.

These religious groups that claim to speak on behalf of all Christians everywhere - are delusional -

for they do not.

These groups who claim to know EXACTLY what Jesus meant are crack pots as they only know the same as any of us - and that comes from reading the same word in the Bible as anyone else except they misread and mistranslate and misinform themselves as well as others, and that is going against the word of Jesus and God ( if you believe the Bible to be the word of God )  and these people are pure crackers.

Deliberately baiting me about being a transexual women was suspicious in the beginning and this mans actions are very questionable.  I wonder exactly where he will go with this from here, as we are quite legal in our Men Only Status and we are quite open and honest in what and whom we are open for -  and TV's - CD's - TS's and anyone considered 'odd' by some in society or even ' sick' - or ' weird ' or ' bent ' or  ' queer '  or anything else where they feel the mass of society does not accept or understand them - and that what they are is not illegal - not involving children or those under the age of consent or any such thing that may cause emotional and / or physical distress to another - and where they are searching for a place to feel accepted for whom they are and not for the way society assumes they should be - are always welcome here... whether it be a post op transexual or a man who likes to dress in daipers and do no harm to anyone.  It makes no difference to me as long as no harm is done to others and it is morally okay.

Jew, Christian, Muslim, gay or straight,  man or women.  I care about people in general and if someone is being persecuted for no fault of their own and where they have done nothing illegal or immoral and no child was involved or innocent bystander hurt in any way - then they are welcome to ask their questions and where we can,  offer some answers in order to help find peace and self worth within. 

No Christian - No jew - No one has the right to deny someone else the right to life - and to living it their own way - and only those who then add child abuse or any such illegal and immoral act into the equasion need to look at why they bring these things into a subject matter that does not have these things in,  as to WHY they are SO hooked up on child abuse etc. and have the need to throw this at everyone they do not agree with,-   as a weapon to ' get them' - and this is evil as evil can be.   Using damnation of an innocent soul to prop themselves and their belief structure up from failure and to garner attention for themselves and their distorted view of Biblical / religious writings and what they personally believe it to mean,  is unenlightened and disgraceful.

It is dangerous as it is disgraceful that there are those who are that naive as to follow and believe these distorted peoples world view and it saddens me that these people use religion to back up their bigotry.

The good Lord of ALL religions would be appalled - disgusted - at men like David Skinner and the clap trap he rants and his manipulative attempts to try and scare others with his silly little e mails claiming to be a pre op female to male transexual.

So;- to end with a  note to David Skinner -

' I shall pray for God to forgive your misguided stance against anything you feel is wrong,  but that - as I am one of God's creations - and which you personally find fault with;-   and that means you disagree with God and his mighty creation;-  and where I know God will forgive you your unenlightened manner,  I also forgive you and hope you find a journey forward with the light and the joys of love in your heart and not the bitter twisted man you seem to have grown into through your misguided readings of the teachings of the Bible.  I hope you can find some more positive truths and stop finding fault with everyone and everything and find the joy in God's creation of man and women, in all its forms and in all its differences, as anything else is denying God and that, dear David Skinner, is not very Christian of you.'

  John Bellamy

I loved the display box above about how gay soldiers need to change diapers  because, presumably, they crap themselves all the time.  People who think this are bonkers. People who actually say these things out loud are just making a mockery out of themselves and those who follow - as to be honest - who the hell believes such clap trap - who in all honesty thinks that gay men all wear diapers because they shit themselves all the time and who in their right mind would even say such a thing out loud - other than a complete moron.





Thomas Cook, the tour operator, has shown us what corporate power has to offer when an accident kills two small children and how, when it comes down to it,  they don't give a fuck in hell about the pain and anguish the family have been put through.   

They continue, even now, to only apologise after their 9 year disgraceful denial of any reason to apologise, and now only because of public pressure. 

Thoman Cook sued the hotel and won over £3 million - half of which paid for their insurance and the other half would have been a profit for Thomas Cook,  and the company had full intentions of keeping that money and actually making a profit on the pain and anguish of its customers.  It recently donated the money ( £1.5 million ) to UNICEF and did not even think to discuss this with the family of the two children killed and only did so even now, because of public prerssure.

I absolutely beggars belief that in no time during the 9 years since the children were killed by a faulty boiler,  did the company think in any way at all, that they needed to show the human side of business and help the family of the deceased and offer sympathy, understanding, counselling and even a free holiday - anything - instead
they showed complete and utter indifference and the usual cold hearted and cruel face of corporate business that doesn't give a damn. 

The boss - a Mr. Frankhauser has also been heavily critisised for his assertion that Thomas Cook had nothing to apologise for during the coroners inquest into the deaths, and in my view, this is the kind of cold hearted bastard that should not be in charge of any company, and like Murdoch,  is unfit to run a public company.

His actions have been disgraceful.

On several occasions guests at Hamilton Hall have been taken ill and needed a day in hospital or a few days in bed here,  through no fault of ours - or theirs - as these things just happen sometimes and we always offer a couple of extra days, on us - to relax and get over their few days ill and enjoy a rest before going home.  It is - as I believe, a decent thing to offer - from the heart - as I can imagine what it is like to have your few days away spoiled by a ' bad turn' and how thoughtful and kind of any venue for accepting this and 'being there' for them.

Naturally, we always say that you need to take out Holiday Insurance in case of anything happening - like a cancelled flight, a broken down car,  ill health or anything - and that is up to the customer to organise and has nothing to do with us,  but when going away for a weekend or a few days, - who bothers ?  In the case of 2 children dying,  no insurance payout is going to bring them back or make you feel better and a gesture from Thoman Cook, right back at the beginning - a kind word, a thoughtful gesture,  an understanding and sympathetic ANYTHING - would have gone  a long long way,-  but instead they decided to hard ball the family, show themselves to be cold hearted bastards and in the end,  it cost Thomas Cook massively in negative media coverage where the public have shown their disgrace for Thomas Cook - Mr. Frankhauser
and the manner in which he saw no reason to apologise. 

It truly beggars belief and I am sure millions of people around the world will now look at Thomas Cook and decide to go elsewhere, as who wants to use a company that so obviously has no interest in its customers well being and just wants their money.  Thomas Cook would be turning in his grave if he saw what Mr. Frankhauser had done with his company, especially as it is so easy to be kind - so easy to be thoughtful of others and so easy to be sympathetic - especially when parents have lost their 2 children. It comes naturally to most of us and with little effort,  yet it seems corporate power knows nothing of their humanity and I am sure Mr. Frankhauser's mother is ashamed and appalled at her little boys behaviour as I am sure she brought him up with better manners and more thought for others.





A 9 year old boy at St. George's Bickley CE School was seen playing knights and dragons in the playground and was using a ruler as a make believe sword, and the head teacher called the police and the boy and his mother were interviewed concerning this.  What absolutely beggars belief, is that on the schools web site - the shield and picture below are detailed and is a sword wielding man fighting a dragon -  and yet when a young boy of 9 plays at precisely this,  the police get called  and if we are to find fault - change the schools shield for a posey of flowers or a sunset - as it completely beggars belief.


I read this report on the Metro newspapers website, which I read daily,  and was absolutely stunned that a 9 year old boy - when seen playing with a ruler as a fake sword,  is seen as a threat and the police have to be called - as if the police have nothing else better to do. 

This disgraceful behaviour by the school and most of all by the Head teacher - Geraldine Shackelton,  sends a very loud message about how our children are not allowed an imagination;-  not allowed to play freely;-  not allowed to copy what we see - and children will be children, and they will play at war games, dragons and demons, rough stuff and tough stuff as that is what they see on the TV:-   that is what is popular culturally and that is exactly what adults are doing all the time - war war and more war - bitching and fighting - lying and cheating during a general election - soap operas with slanging matches between people and there are very little role models left for children to look up and aspire to  as everyone is afraid - afraid they will be cast as an evil doer - a peadophile - a pervert - just because they are good people with no hidden agendas and just want to help - and other than footballers who often do not set a good example,  children have no good role models left any more.

Even Spongebob Squarepants - a hugely popular and awarded childrens programme loved by millions of children around the world - and despite its widespread popularity, the series has been involved in several public controversies, including one centered on speculation over SpongeBob's intended sexual orientation;-  ( I despair - it's a cartoon for God's sake )   and the Telly Tubbies where an adult complained  because one had a handbag and therefore must have been gay - and we look at these occurances and the adults who complain and we must see clearly here folks - we must start seeing clearly and truthfully, that it is the adults that have the problems and by using the police and causing such trouble for a young boy who should be encouraged for using his imagination in play - are creating and harvesting nothing but trouble for the next generation who will grow up afraid to play in case they make the wrong move and someone reads it all wrong - afraid to speak up in case they say the wrong thing - afraid to be creative in case they are labeled gay or even a perv.  - and afraid to do and say anything in case the state comes down on them.  

I was stunned that this happened in the UK as it is the kind of thing we see happening in America all the time -  but remember a friend who was a Deputy Head of a failing school back in the mid 1990's - in London - and who was put into the school to help sort it out,  and he was reported for touching one of the girl students - ( he is an out gay man and everyone knew he was gay ) and within 30 minutes it as realized it was untrue as he was in a staff meeting with 30 other teachers at the time the girl said he was with her - so everyone knew it was a lie by the girl to gain attention,  but he was still investigated and laid off work for 18 months with full pay ( and full stress ) and the council spent over £250,000 investigating what was known within minutes to be a lie - and the abuse was compounded by the very institution aimed at protecting those it abuses.

If we are to follow this onwards, and if we allow this sort of abuse to  continue - abuse that comes from the state and mad people allowed to hold powerful positions of authority, then the next generation will be fucked up and we stand little chance of a stable, sensible, educated and nurtured generation to come, and will have a generation of scared, intimidated and underdeveloped people bringing up our next generation - and that spells even more problems ahead.

Let children play,   and monitor their play,  but for goodness sake,  the adults need to lighten up - grow up - and relax. Not every childrens game is one of a future terrorist - ( and besides,  it is our government that causes and creates terrorists by its very actions of being the bully around the world in order to gain access to the oil and gas etc. )  and we need to allow our children to use their imagination in fun and laughter - and foster happy children.  Not scared ones.

John Bellamy



4 States That Punish Solar Panel Users

I found this article below and it just goes to whoe the length that big corporate busioness will go to, and the corruption of government
officials, abd the absolute insanmity involved in restricting solar panels in the very states where there is constant sunshine and the perfect place for massive solar farms and on all roof tops and REALLY should be made law that absolutely everyopne has a solar panel and so help stop the use of fossil fuels,  and it just goes to show, that as long as big corporate business is in conteol of the money - nothing - FUCK ALL - will ever actually be done to help reduce anything - be it car fumes,  fossil fuels from power stations or anything else, as long as big busioness has no financial interest in making any kind f change.  Bribery are corruption scream out for all to see... Just read below.
In light of the life-threatening climate change concerns, you’d think most states would be looking to help residents turn to green sources of energy to limit carbon emissions. However, due to private interests throwing money at local politicians, many state legislators are punishing citizens who try to take the responsible route of adding solar panels to their roofs. Here are four states that are among the worst offenders:

1. Arizona 

The steps Arizona has taken to discourage solar panels is “unprecedented” according to environmentalist groups. The Arizona Public Service Co., supposedly in defense of residents without solar panels (though really the fossil fuel industry), has successfully lobbied to get people with solar panels a $5 charge per month for each solar panel they have. Initially, the APS sought to charge an inexplicable $50+ per month to users of solar, and the organization says it will not give up the fight to have the fee increased.

Will Greene of the Sierra Club did not mince words about what this means for Arizona. “Their decision stands to raise major roadblocks that will threaten the growth of our clean energy economy and its nearly 10,000 direct jobs,” he said. “Instead of trying to obstruct the growth of rooftop solar, APS – and the ACC – should try to encourage its expansion so that everyone enjoys the energy savings and economic prosperity that rooftop solar generates.”

2. Florida

Based on all of the available sunshine in the Sunshine State, experts believe that Florida could easily be the third largest producer of solar energy. However, existing laws have purposefully excluded solar companies from becoming competitive in the state. Accordingly, solar has not caught on with residents and it remains thirteenth in the nation instead.

While other states incentivize solar panels by allowing people to sell the energy they produce back to the grid, Florida mandates that only utility companies can sell energy. Without this perk, home and business owners don’t have the financial incentive to pay for this long-term invest.

3. Oklahoma

Oklahoma legislators swiftly and near-unanimously passed a law that would tax homeowners and businesses with solar panels on their roofs, much to the surprise of residents and environmental advocates. Since last year, anyone who produces solar panel that contributes to the grid must pay a monthly fee.

Really, the utility companies should be thanking solar users for giving them additional power to use, particularly during peak hours, but instead they’re preemptively trying to protect profits and discourage Okies from using solar over other energy sources that they’d have to pay for.

4. Idaho

In a ranking of states that are friendliest to solar power, Idaho ranks dead last. On average, it takes about 16 years for someone to recoup his or her initial investment. Solar rebates are horrible in the state, and panel leasing isn’t available in the state to people who can’t afford installation up front.

And how is Idaho trying to improve its efforts? Quite simply, it is not. Last week, State Senator Jim Risch introduced legislation that would give utility companies the right to reject surplus energy created by individuals’ solar panels, thus punishing people who already have the panels. Unsurprisingly, Risch has received ample campaign donations from non-renewable energy organizations.




After a week of lovely weather we had rain this morning and 

I am sitting here in the office listening to birds singing outside - and it is a joyous sound.




I often see these awards and think - well - who voted that the best pub / club / gay venue - as no one asked me and who voted it the best ???   ... and consider it all a load of bollocks to get you to spend more money in their bar.  Trip Advisor;-  while I say they are tossers and a waste of time - this certificate of excellence is an award because of the amount of positive feedback we have received from those who have stayed here and THAT is wonderful and I am proud and thrilled about that.  Compared to many other venues, we could easily be a 3 or 4 star B&B but I do not buy into the tourist board schemes which - again - are just money spinners for the council - and I do not waste my money with something that has such little meaning. 

66% of visitors attend alone.
22% attend  with a partner / friend
6% come on business


New Year Joke:

When I found out I was Bi Polar, I didn't know whether to laugh or cry.




Written by Stephen Beresford and directed by Matthew Warchus

  I ordered this movie from Gays the Word Bookshop in London ( HERE ) after a customer suggested it and I have not cried as much while watching a movie as I did last night.  Filled with sweet tender moments that make you ' fill up'  and several times when the tears really flowed - as the story of a group of gay men and lesbians decide to collect money and support the coal miners during the Thatcher period of destroying the Miners Union back in the 1980's  and the ' coming together' of people from very different communities - 1) Coal Miners - 2) Gay Men and Lesbians - and the acceptance and rewards that these very different communities find through a battle with authorities for acceptance of a way of life and to keep their mines open.

With those from the gay community understanding persecution and bigotry only too well,  they appreciate and value what the miner
s are going through fighting the Thatcher government for the right to keep their livlihoods and their communities up and running.  Gay men have fought for decades for acceptance  in law  ( which we tend to take for granted now we have all we fought for ) but these were the days when GAY PRIDE MARCHES were political and had a powerful message about equality and not the Mardi Gras celebration of - er - what  exactly ???  - as it is these days up and down the country and the London  Gay Pride marches of the 1980's were London based - and tens of thousands would attend from all over the country.   We had a common goal we shared - about acceptance and a change in the law - and the way these gay men and lesbians took it upon themselves to raise funds and moral for the miners - is breath taking - and I did cry - several times.

I found this film to be very moving and as I am old enough to remember the onset of HIV and Aids and all that was ' going down'  in the mid '80's,  this film is well worth a visit and have a big box of Kleenex handy,  oh and you will laugh out loud as well - as there are many very funny scenes.
With some familiar faces - this well produced and executed story keeps its point and keeps you watching.  Not too ' over the top' and certainly not too preachy about gay rights - it hit the nail right on the head and combined the difficulties of being a member of the gay /. lesbian community and a member of a small mining community and a coming together of real opposites with a common goal,  and from this coming together,  acceptance and love prevaile. 
I shall certainly be watching this film a lot with customers here at Hammy Hall and shall certainly now be ordering at least another dozen copies from 
GAYS THE WORD BOOK SHOP - as they helped - back in the '80's - by offering the group of fund raisers to use their facilities in the shop and I would rather spend my money buying the DVD from them than Amazon.







Spirituality and Men (SAM)
is a self-development group run by men for men, aiming to explore the spirit of man through informative dialogue, honest interaction and the silence of meditation.

This group meets on the first Sunday of every month at Global Co-operation House.


For further information, please contact the SAM team:



Thought you might like to see these e mails to and from Hammy Hall.  

It did make me laugh.


To Hamilton Hall :-    ' If I come to see any of your clients in the hotel do I have to pay anything?'

My Answer: :- 'I have no idea what you are talking about … . in plain English please.'

His answer :- 'In plain English: Can I come to your Hotel and have sex with your clients (I expect your clients to pay me) You can not expect me to pay for anything as I am short of money.'

My answer :-  'In plain English - FUCK OFF'



This is so sweet, a dog who discovers he doesn't have to swim




Tony Bray died just before Christmas  2014, and I shall miss him.  He was a good and dear friend who visited and loved Hamilton Hall and would sit in the Conservatory meeting and greeting people as they came and went and everyone loved his peaceful and charming manner.  He was 79 years of age and a real sweetheart.    He will be missed, dearly missed.








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Every penny raised goes to help the many people we help with food, company, a week or  weekend away, counseling, and even sometimes helping with clothes. In one case we bought a homeless student a bike to get to college on,  and in another , a guitar and lessons to play for a local lad whose life was aimless and he was stoned on drugs all day and all night and we are today, guiding him into making  a life for himself - get his act together - and have some order in his empty life.  We do what we do for absolutely no reason other than 

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