

things we wished we had learned at the time
When I was young and 'old people' gave me advise
Did I listen ?
Did I take notice ?
Did I adhere to the advise ? Fuck no. Once when I was 17 an elderly gentleman friend told me how quickly the years have flown and that from 17 - 82 it had just gone ... and I remember the occasion as if it was yesterday and thinking - ' Silly old fool, I'm only 17.' and that was 59 years ago now and he was quite correct, it has flown. There are lots of things older people said to us deca


Insurers refuse to cover gay sauna.
Insurers refuse to cover gay sauna. A legal business is denied insurance & will be forced to close. Insurance refusal is a threat to all gay saunas in the UK
London, UK – 1 March 2021
The Pink Broadway gay sauna in Southampton is being refused insurance, with either no explanation or claims that insurers don’t cover ‘adult’ businesses. Insurance is mandatory and the refusal of insurance could force the sauna’s closure in a part of England with few gay meeting and entertai


BBC ( Big Black Cock )
And to those who think these are fake, they are not. Some do and some do not. Some can and some cannot. Personally, I see sexuality and desire in all races, all colours, all creeds and all ethnic minorities as we are all human (well I assume so) and we are all sexual beings and there is little difference in what anyone wants out of life be they Iranian, American, European, Chinese or living in Antartica. We all want the same things in life and some - like Big Black Cock - and


e mails from you - and thanks
When you do anything in life, it is always wonderful when it is appreciated. Whatever it may be.
Here are a few of the recent e mails received from some of you. And thanks. Every word is always greatly appreciated. John Bellamy oh and if you read down to the bottom of the page there is a pleasant surprise for you... ------------------------------------ Dear John, Glad to see you are “hanging” in there after all the horrors of this past year. Carl and I have cancelled plans


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Straight crowd forces police to release gay men arrested for kissing
Parents & locals started chanting "I'm gay too!" in solidarity. Bravo! After two men were arrested for kissing on a public beach in Mexico, a crowd of furious sunbathers surrounded the heavily armed cops and demanded their release. As parents and locals started chanting “I’m gay!” and “I’m gay too!” in solidarity with the men, the officers let the men go. Video of the incident has skyrocketed around the world and Mexican LGBTQ groups are demanding authorities take action. The


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The power of touch: Is this the sense we’ve missed most?
Social distancing has reminded us what a crucial role touch plays in our wellbeing, says social and cultural historian Joe Moran CLICK HERE TO READ A VERY GOOD ARTICLE IN THE GUARDIAN https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/feb/28/the-power-of-touch-is-this-the-sense-we-have-missed-most?utm_source=pocket-newtab-global-en-GB BLOG HOME PAGE


Bruno
Researching for a previous article on here I came across a picture of Bruno - probably from the 1970's and was fascinated to see how he had changed over the decades. Seems nature has been kind. and these pictures below are some decades later :- Sometimes life throws a curve ball our way and this can be difficult for some to handle. Some stunningly handsome people grow old and ugly and change beyond recognition, while others mature beautifully and while changing, they do so


time changes all of us.
I worked out at the gym for 15 years. I was in fabulous shape. But times change, priorities change, body types change and sometimes it is sad to see. Below are some examples of body builders after they give up the gymn, age, have surgery or - simply - get old. To be honest, it makes me feel so much better about myself. As I look in the mirror and wonder where it wll went wrong.. ha ha .. where the toning and washboard all went. I do know it was because I quit the gymn when I


CALL FOR ACTION – The EU as an “LGBTIQ Freedom Zone”
http://lgbti-ep.eu/2021/02/26/call-for-action-the-eu-as-an-lgbti-freedom-zone/ BRIEFING NOTE: Declaration of the EU as an “LGBTIQ Freedom Zone” Background information (Call for Action below) Since 2019, several municipalities, regions and counties in Poland have adopted declarations on being free of “LGBT-ideology” or Regional Charters of Family Values. These initiatives, the so-called ‘LGBTI-free zones’, led to increased scapegoating of LGBTI persons in Poland, namely du


Looking after my life partner when he had dementia
My life partner of 30 years died from vascular dementia. He was 65 when he was diagnosed however he had symptoms long before that time. It started like what we all say ‘senior moments.' Sadly, it went bad really quickly as he lost his ability to put a sentence together as he thought he was making perfect sense so it was frustrating for both. The evenings, after the sun went down, was really bad as that is when he would wake up and start to walk around the house and once I