weekly sex tip - rimming
Rimming
I joined a group decades ago advertising itself s a RIMMING GROUP FOR SERIOUS RIMMERS. Well, that was right up my back alley.... So I joined.
The owner of the group came to 'interview me' one evening and I was thrilled... an evening of fun.
We talked for half an hour and he told me that out of 150 members, only about 25 were serious rimmers while the rest just played and were not all that genuine - so I thought I was in for a good old time here... ha ha ... hooray...
I took him to my dungeon play room and after a couple of minutes of sitting on his face, he wriggled up and away.
Oh - Me thinks - That's odd.
Never mind me thinks, it;s my turn now..
So down I lay and sit he did - and it was great - for about 3 - 4 minutes when he got up and made it obvious he was leaving.
That's when I spoke up and stated ;-
'So you are one of the very people on your group you are complaining about not being a serious rimmer, as I thought we were going to have some fun here and you lasted 3 or 4 minutes and that was it. So What The Fuck ?'
He left and I never heard again.
His loss - BIG TIME.
Many are useless rimmers anyway.
I am laying down on the bed. Pillow under my head. On my back. ( as above ) A man then kneels over my head and sits... Like in the picture.
Perfect. He is sitting upright and I can enjoy myself.
BUT: WHAT ALWAYS HAPPENS - He then bends forward to suck on my dick and now the ass has completely ridden up too high to rim and my neck is sore from holding a posiition that is now beyond my tongues reach. I am now NOT able to rim his ass because he has - selfishly - not thought about me but himself and his desire to suck my cock.
Above: Really a very un comfortable position for the rimmer when the guys bends forward like this.
Fine.
He can suck my cock later as at the moment, I WANT TO RIM HIS FUCKING ASS, SO SIT UPRIGHT, STAY UPRIGHT, YOU CAN WRIGGLE AND TEASE BUT DO NOT TAKE THE ASS TOO FAR AWAY AS THIS IS THE RIMMERS TIME... NOT YOURS.
Stay there as long as possible as the rimmer will make it obvious when he wants to change - move position, change to something else, and you CAN compartmentalise sex... and not expect to do it all at the same time but all seperated by chill out breaks, laughter, a smoke break, drink break, catch your breath break, and there is no need to just ' go for it' and cum before you have even started.
It is about your dick having fun, but it is also about so much more, and being patient and understanding of others - is what makes you good at sex. Self centred sex is boring. Then many wonder why they do not get repeat performances.
BE CLEAN. DOUCHE at least an hour before hand as your body needs to reline the colon wall with ' butt honey' - the natural lube that lines the colon wall, and STOP - THINK - IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU.
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Did make me laugh. Rimming. Know where you are at. Know perfectly. Spent over 4 hours on one guys arse as he watched youtube vids. I was happy. He was happy. Eddie OMG John. I read all your things and enjoy your opinions and am with you on the rimming question as well. At 54 years of age I feel my sex life has never really started yet while being an out gay man for 15 years and having lots of partners, none really hit the spot - none really got me all hot and bothered - while they were all good looking and sexy guys, they didn't have a clue sexually and while I was married for 20 years, I do feel I had a whole load more knowledge than these guys had. Maybe I am just meeting boring lazy guys. Maybe they just hadn't a clue. I am obviously meeting all the wrong guys.
Martin.
John Bellamy Comment: AS stated, I was a sex worker and saw tens of thousands of clients over the 15 years. Sex workers phone each other up for sex as while we may be having sex with clients 4 or 5 times a day, it will not be the sex YOU want and so sex workers phone each other for some free sex, and scores phoned me over the years while I never - ever - called them looking for sex.
They would come round and we would have sex and sadly, most sex workers I met were not that good at sex and often hot and sexy as they are , NOT A FUCKING CLUE - and it is actually more frustrating than if you had not even bothered.
Not all sex workers - and actually very few men - have a clue and it is very few of us who take it to the next level...
John: The best and most exciting sex I can ever remember, and remember John I am now over 80, was decades ago when I first visited you when you were being Christopher, the bondage master, and you took me into your loft area, all dark and black curtained areas, and you stripped me off naked, and then just opened the black drapes to expose the room, the fuck room, the sex dungeon, and even now all these years later, just standing there looking into a room completely designed for sex - all sorts of sex - all sorts of equipment hanging, supported, in drawers and cupboards - was as frightening as shit and as exciting as anything I had ever done at the time, or actually since. That memory stays with me John ( or is it Christopher lol ) all these years later.
You may remember me., You always called me The Bishop - because at that time I was. Now long time retired.
Edward.
Hi, John!
Loved your article on rimming in the newsletter! Couldn't agree more. It's one of the most wonderful things to do with another man, and it should be savored for sure! My partner, Chuck, can spend hours between a man's butt cheeks, especially if he is older and hairy. I get really turned on watching him eat ass, mostly because I know how much he enjoys it.
He loves it when I sit on his face in a position that gives him full access to my hole, my balls, and everything in between. I do occasionally like to lean over to suck or stroke his cock briefly, but that's only because it's so rock hard and huge that I can't resist. But I know the focus is on my hole and his enjoyment of it, so I just relax and let him have it as long as he wants while I admire his throbbing cock. We never rush; we like our lovemaking to last a long time. đ
I love rimming his hole, too. Drives him mad with desire. D.
John: Thanks for the newsletters - I'm glad to hear you are up and running again. Must have been a tough time.
Loved the piece on rimming and reading your comments which excited me. I love to be rimmed for hours. I imagine you are extremely good at this and preparing a guys hole?
Here are a couple of pics of me being prepared - hope you like
Take care
JB : I love receivine pictures first thing in the mornign as it does cheer me up.. ha ha ... some nice sexy pictures in my In Box... Thanks for the above.,.. John Bellamy
