weekly sex tip - rimming
Rimming
I joined a group decades ago advertising itself s a RIMMING GROUP FOR SERIOUS RIMMERS. Well, that was right up my back alley.... So I joined.
The owner of the group came to 'interview me' one evening and I was thrilled... an evening of fun.
We talked for half an hour and he told me that out of 150 members, only about 25 were serious rimmers while the rest just played and were not all that genuine - so I thought I was in for a good old time here... ha ha ... hooray...
I took him to my dungeon play room and after a couple of minutes of sitting on his face, he wriggled up and away.
Oh - Me thinks - That's odd.
Never mind me thinks, it;s my turn now..
So down I lay and sit he did - and it was great - for about 3 - 4 minutes when he got up and made it obvious he was leaving.
That's when I spoke up and stated ;-
'So you are one of the very people on your group you are complaining about not being a serious rimmer, as I thought we were going to have some fun here and you lasted 3 or 4 minutes and that was it. So What The Fuck ?'
He left and I never heard again.
His loss - BIG TIME.
Many are useless rimmers anyway.
I am laying down on the bed. Pillow under my head. On my back. ( as above ) A man then kneels over my head and sits... Like in the picture.
Perfect. He is sitting upright and I can enjoy myself.
BUT: WHAT ALWAYS HAPPENS - He then bends forward to suck on my dick and now the ass has completely ridden up too high to rim and my neck is sore from holding a posiition that is now beyond my tongues reach. I am now NOT able to rim his ass because he has - selfishly - not thought about me but himself and his desire to suck my cock.
Above: Really a very un comfortable position for the rimmer when the guys bends forward like this.
Fine.
He can suck my cock later as at the moment, I WANT TO RIM HIS FUCKING ASS, SO SIT UPRIGHT, STAY UPRIGHT, YOU CAN WRIGGLE AND TEASE BUT DO NOT TAKE THE ASS TOO FAR AWAY AS THIS IS THE RIMMERS TIME... NOT YOURS.
Stay there as long as possible as the rimmer will make it obvious when he wants to change - move position, change to something else, and you CAN compartmentalise sex... and not expect to do it all at the same time but all seperated by chill out breaks, laughter, a smoke break, drink break, catch your breath break, and there is no need to just ' go for it' and cum before you have even started.
It is about your dick having fun, but it is also about so much more, and being patient and understanding of others - is what makes you good at sex. Self centred sex is boring. Then many wonder why they do not get repeat performances.
BE CLEAN. DOUCHE at least an hour before hand as your body needs to reline the colon wall with ' butt honey' - the natural lube that lines the colon wall, and STOP - THINK - IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU.
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Did make me laugh. Rimming. Know where you are at. Know perfectly. Spent over 4 hours on one guys arse as he watched youtube vids. I was happy. He was happy. Eddie OMG John. I read all your things and enjoy your opinions and am with you on the rimming question as well. At 54 years of age I feel my sex life has never really started yet while being an out gay man for 15 years and having lots of partners, none really hit the spot - none really got me all hot and bothered - while they were all good looking and sexy guys, they didn't have a clue sexually and while I was married for 20 years, I do feel I had a whole load more knowledge than these guys had. Maybe I am just meeting boring lazy guys. Maybe they just hadn't a clue. I am obviously meeting all the wrong guys.
Martin.
John Bellamy Comment: AS stated, I was a sex worker and saw tens of thousands of clients o