things to dislike & things to love
Sadly, the human mind is hard wired to accept and promote negative input. We find things to complain about before we find things to compliment. Here is a vague list of things that can / may be seen as negative, not so nice, horrible, tasteless, uninvited, unwanted - AGAINST another list of things we like, want, enjoy, desire.
What would you add to this list ...
TOP - IN WHITE = VILE BOTTOM - IN GREEN = LOVE IT
Blackpool Bournemouth
Married men who are homosexual / homophobes. Those with an open and accepting minds.
People who become bitter with age. Old wise people who love to share their life's journey
Twinks who think they know everything Those who accept they don't know everything & willing to learn
Twinks who think they know everything sexually
Those willing to learn.
Gays who do not support gay venues
Gays who DO support the gay community
Tacky gay venues who are all about money.
Clean respectful venues that value your custom
Women's Lib - For as much as I agree 100% in women's rights - the pendulum has swung too far the other way. Equality for all and not just one sided, but as the word says - EQUALITY.
Women who think their vaginas can get them anything they want. Those who DO NOT use sex as a weapon or as a manipulative tool.
Shitty fucks - there is no excuse.
Douching.
People talking to themselves in the street who are actually on the phone. Talking face to face is so much better.
Pompous upper class twits Normal every day people
Workshop facilitators who don't really know much about what they are teaching. Experience.
The Brighton gay scene.
Places without too much fucked up attitude.
Arrogance like we see from Prince Andrew
Nice people.
Daytime adverts for funeral costs and insurance
Honesty
Police brutality and rudeness
Good policing.
Ursula von der Leyen the 13th President of the European Commission A child could do a better job, so - anyone.
Diane Ross - silly spoiled witch. Barbra Streisand - life with style.
America - for turning a great country into a hot bed of terrorism, gun culture, manic religions and mass murder of children in schools by fellow pupils. America - one of the most beautiful and diverse countries on the planet, a true beauty.
Those who take advantage sexually because they can. Those who allow people their own space without being harassed.
Barman in gay bars who seem to be there to cruise and not actually serve anyone.
People who offer 100% to their job and make it worth while.
Mariah Carey - silly spoiled witch Hugh Jackman - sexy fucka...
Gay men who are crap at sucking cock - no excuse.
Good sex with no instruction.
Smelly foreskins.
A clean cock.
Anchovies Marmite
Arrogant shop staff with attitude.
Good friendly service
Smelly vaginas.
For some, a clean lavender smelling vagina.
Gobby Queens who actually have nothing interesting to say.
Those who DO have something to say and is worthy of listening to.
People with nothing interesting to say but who like the sound of their own voices.
Those who talk sense and not gibberish twoddle.
Those who assume everything is about them.
Those who freely consider others first.
People who talk about ' Their Daimler.'
People who do not feel the need to brag and put others down to prop themselves up or to draw attention to themselves.
The way Clone Zone charges twice the normal price just because they can = ripping off the gay market. Honesty. Many on the LGBT scene do not understand honesty - especially in business.
The way B-B-Boris Johnson speaks.
Maggie Thatcher at least had elocution lessons and spoke clearly, unlike B-B-B-Boris...
Tight foreskins that REALLY need some treatment yet the owner doesn't get it.
A nice dick can be a thing of absolute beauty.
Workshop facilitators who string an easy training into numerous parts to earn / screw you out of more money.
Repeat answer from above :- Honesty. Many on the LGBT scene do not understand honesty - especially in business.
Toffy nosed assholes.
Genuine kind and thoughtful people.
Vegans who dictate to meat eaters.
Those who allow each of us our differences without feeling the need to convert all the time.
Organised religions Freedom to believe as you will.
Trump
ANYONE will do compared to Trump... almost ....
Those who think they are above others.
Those who value everyone as worthy.
Sexually transmitted diseases.
Good health
Arrogant doctors. Thoughtful doctors who see you as a human being and not just a number.
Those who look down on others.
Repeat answer from above :- Those who value everyone as worthy.
British Gas who threatened to ' Break your fucking knees' Anyone BUT British Gas.
People who resent what you have.
Those who work hard to get what they want themselves.
Boring useless sex.
Good sex aint hard.
Bars that charge a door fee when nothing special is offered.
Good service is worth paying for. Bad or no service is not.
Smokers who have quit constantly harking on about it.
Repeat answer from above:- Those who allow each of us our differences without feeling the need to convert all the time.
Gays who complain about the LGBT scene but do not support it financially. Peter Tatchell - fully admired and all those who continue to keeping the LGBT community alive.
Lesbians who hate men Love everyone, it's easier.
Gay men who hate women
Why hate anything, it costs too much.
Men who beat up on women.
Physical violence is wrong.
Women who beat up on men.
Physical violence is wrong.
Snobs. Friendliness.
Attitude queens serving behind the bar who think they are something special Good service.
Those who think the world owes them a living for doing nothing. Those who work for what they acquire deserve it all.
The Police - who largely appear to be VERY Customer Unfriendly. Police who see us as INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY whereas it is the other way round for many.
Everyone who voted for Trump.
Everyone who DID NOT vote for Trump...
Trump.
Almost ???? Almost anyone would have been better than Trump, even the awful Hillary.
Liars - especially when in government / positions of power over others.
Those who are truthful and honest.
Actors who complain about the 'Casting Couch' years later after winning the Oscar and making millions.
Those who read it as it is AT THE TIME and speak the truth AT THE TIME and do not lie and manipulate to get what they want AND THEN complain later on - as then they bought into it and are just as guilty.
Actors who go to the Producer / Directors hotel bedroom at midnight and complain about being made to have sex to get the part in the film when WTF - who has a business meeting at midnight in their hotel bedroom when CLEARLY this was the 'Casting Couch' and playing dumb doesn't cut it. So who is abusing and who is using who to get what they want in this scenario ?
People who live in Council Housing / Housing Trust accommodation - often in London - yet OWN a flat somewhere else, often in Brighton. Honest tenants and not lying thieves taking accommodation from someone else in need.
Growing old Growing wiser with age.
We use to be 'Innocent Until Proven Guilty' - whereas these days it is ' Guilty Until Proven Innocent.'
Police who do their job with no attitude problem which MANY seem to have AGAINST the general public.
Terrorism - ANY form of terrorism.
Peaceful Calm and Loving. Acceptance of all our differences.
America - for supporting and being the cause of many wars and terrorism attacks.
America - for being one of the most beautiful countries on the planet.
Benefit cheats Honesty.
Covid isolation.
Loved being quiet and enjoying the peace and solitude.
No emotional support. Friends and family there for you.
No more working from home.
Goody, meeting fellow workmates again and sharing a laugh at the office.
Crammed into rush hour trains
Back to work again, hooray.
I am sure I could go on and on and I am sure you could add a few things of your own. Life gets back to normal and many of the things we have disliked during Covid will be coming to an end or maybe to a different beginning as before. Things will never be the same again - so
IF YOU WISH TO SEND ME YOUR OWN TO ADD TO THIS, PLEASE DO.
' Welcome to the New Age. '
John Bellamy
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