Marmite - Love it or Hate it.
- May 2
- 12 min read
A PERSONAL PIECE BY JOHN BELLAMY
Not in any order of LOVE or HATE - just a random list I am sure we could all add to with a few politicians, priests, pop / soap stars and maybe even a few toxic family members but most of all with these people, they are all like Marmite. If you think of some new ones, just send them in...
People will love or hate you regardless of who you are and what you do. You just have to accept there are a lot of unhappy people out there who hate those who have better lives, or so they assume.
Personally I have never HATED anything my whole life. Oh I may envy but I do not hate. I may dislike but I do not hate. I may avoid and so, do not need to hate.
Marmite.
You either LOVE it - or HATE it - according to the TV advert, and it is quite true. Many in the UK love it while many - especially in the US - hate it. So WHAT IS A MARMITE... Glad you ask as I'm about to tell you.
It is the cooking pot detailed on the label with the word MARMITE writen on it and that - my friends - has been staring you in the face for decades and yet - you didn't notice before. Personally, I have been a Marmite Baby since my Mother washed her nipples with Marmite prior to breast feeding. ( JUST JOKING - no e mails please....) I tried it on a mans cock once;- was a waste of Marmite and a waste of a decent cock. One or the other - One at a time...
Diana Ross.
Brilliant performer but such a fucking Diva - She thrown tantrums in the middle of concerts, kicking speakers off stage and generally is ' up her own ass with self importance.' Her audiance has a LOVE OR HATE relationship with her. I witnessed this personally when at a concert in Wembley decades ago she started throwing a tatrum because she could not hear herself singing and if you are that much of a professional, HAVE A SOUND CHECK BEFORE THE EVENINGS BEGINS.
She was suppose to star with Ryan Oneil in The Bodyguard some years before Witney Houston but her behaviour on set was so bad, it never got made. She has a bad reputation for being difficult.
Mariah Carey.
This Diva inststs on being treated as the Diva she assumes herself to be by EVERYONE, and ALL THE TIME, and that kind of ME ME ME drives anyone away and she is ignored by many because of her attitude. Full of herself is why so many cannot stand her. She reminds me of a Barby Doll on acid. Dreadful women.
John Bellamy.
Too handsome and far too fabulous for his own good and many resent and envy and so hate through the green eyed monster. He is known to be the kindest and most thoughtful giving person imaginable, while also being a Devil in disguise and is known to speak his mind and not take prisoners, When life throws lemons at you - he says to go make gin and lemon but first - you have to wash the lemons. Like Peter Tatchell, John is loved and hated but concentrates on the lovers and not the negative aspect of peoples own self inflicted mysery. John has a lot in common with this guy below, as so many have mentioned...( ? )
Brad Pitt.
So many cannot stand this man and so many also are in love with this man - so like Marmite, it's give and take. Many in the gay world have such negative things to say about him and I guess, it's resentment. While for many he is in their 'Wank Bank' and STILL people will resent just because he is so - well - He's Brad Pitt. Rich, Famous, Stunningly handsome, and just like John Bellamy above, adored and worshipped by millions. ( ???? )
( I am joking guys, don't send in your e mails complaining... I am joking... )
Maggie Thatcher.
Well this will be an odd one as THOUSANDS wished her dead and yet bought their council homes on the cheap and made money on reselling and this got them onto the property ladder - which was Mrs. Thatcher's doing. Many complain while thousands benefitted. She closed the mental institutions and in so doing, now we all know what Turettes and Aspbergers are. One friend kept a bottle of Champagne on ice for a decade to have ready for when it was announced she had died and THAT is sadly - real hate... which is just too destructive to your soul holding all that hatred inside like that. I admired her as I do any powerful women who takes on a mans world and wins.
Donald J. Trump.
Well what can I say about Donald J. Hitler - Oops sorry - I meant - Donald J. Hitler - Oh dear I've done it again... Cannot seem to get one name out of my mind while thinking of the other. It's just they have so much in common except one is a fat orange cunt and the other - dead.
LOVE - well I only know one person who sees this Orange Man as a God, as everyone else I speak to see him as THE ANTI CHRIST, and hate him through and through. Probably the most hated and most dangerous lunatic in the world and he is the President of the United States. What is this, some dystopian horror film ??? In less than a year he has destroyed the global economy, sterted numerous wars, bankrupted the USA and destroyed millions of peoples lives and he still thinks we love and adore him and what he is doing is right and correct.
He's Hitler.
Tony Blair.
Another contentious person HUGELY HATED BY MILLIONS who they feel sold the UK out to America dragging the UK into an illegal war. Loved at the beginning of his tennncy at No. 10 as he was a breath of fresh air until he started rimming George Bush and dragging the UK into an American illegal war with Iraq while the people HATE HATE HATE him for that. He appears to be the most hated person in the UK - well - Queer Starmer and Jimmy Saville are probably up there as well.
Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor.
Formery known as ' Prince Andrew' - Now the low life of the family, the one they don't mention any more. I don't actually care if he fucked a 17 year old or not - I feel that has been blown out of all proportions - BUT - his absolute arrogance and condesending attitude towards others he sees as ' below him' make me dislike this pompous arrogant asshole and where there was love - MILLIONS have turned to hate as this despicable man sees himself as the victim and how we are all wrong. Never apologising about his relationship with Epstein was a big kick in the teeth for his victims. Sadly for him, his own self got in the way, and he himself destroyed whatever chance he had, and when he opened his big pompous mouth on Panorama, his fate was sealed by himself. I feel kinda sorry for him, but on the other hand, I don't at all. Stupid cunt.
Barbra Streisand.
So many say they love her singing but cannot watch her as she is boss / cross eyed. Too loud. Too Jewish. To ugly. Oh really ? Yet she is the biggest star on the planet - BIGGER THAN ANYONE ELSE YOU CAN MENTION IN SHOW BUSINESS - ( go on - try - send me an e mail of someone who has achieved more and is more awarded ...) and that love hate comes lagely from that and because of her career choices have not been to everyones taste. Hollywood hates her because she is her own boss and worst of all A WOMEN and the men in Hollywood hate women in powerful positions, it scares the pants off straight men when women comes into her own power and stands up to them, as Barbra has done her whole career. Men in powerful positions of power - are called ' ball breakers - tough cookies ' etc. while when a women shows her strengths, she is called ' A BITCH - CONTROLLING.' Love her or hate her, you cannot deny her true mega stardome. PERSONALLY I LOVE LOVE LOVE HER... so there...
Anchovies.
Absolutely vile stuff. Massively appreciated and loved by many and reviled by many as well. Gentlemans Relish is Anchovy Paste and I cannot imagine anything more revolting.
Not keen on fishy fish flavour and this is the ultimate fishy flavour. Vile.
Meghan Markle.
Well what can I say about this - er - family splitter - gold digger - fame junky - twisted evil witch that has not already been printed, said and thought. She destroyed Harry who clearly is under her thumb and she is the most egotistical witch imagineable. She did one acting role, ONE and she thinks she is a global superstar / blogger making demands and throwing tanrums and turning up where she is not invited or wanted and acts like a female Trump, expecting everyone to bow down to her when all she is is a jumped up B actress. Disliked intensely in L.A. after she thought she was going to take the town by storm and be the Princess Di of America and BOY did that back fire when the public discovered all her programmes on Netflix etc. were shit and what a stuck up horrible person she is. Even disowned her own sick father because it did not match her fame status so cut him dead. Not a nice women and I feel sorry for Harry stuck with another Mrs. Simpspn, ( Google it. )
Hairy V Smooth.
I love hairy. I also love smooth. But for many hairy is a major turn off. They like the feel of solf and smooth, somewhat girlie soft. Whereas strong and hairy is masculine and manly - and what a gay man wants, not a girlie type at all. Real men have real man sex with real men and that scares some.
I am smooth as silk. I have always, since seeing boys at school with poubic hard before anyone else ( swimming and sports shared one large changing room ) longed to be hairy myself, but that was not to be. Love it or Hate it.. Hairy for me is best...
Christmas & the Festive Season.
Millions of people hate the Festive Season for tons of reasons. This ' cheerful time of the year' is often anything but cheerful for a lot of people who dread and hate Christmas and long for it all to be over. Many love and plan and prepare and spend and worry and stress about Christmas and that's maybe, why so many hate it.
Visiting family is often dreaded and is only done at this time of the year because people feel they should, when the answer is, if you don't want to, then don't. Credit cards maxed out. Too many hangovers. Eaten far too much. Family arguments. Missed the movie because of .... It's a diversve time of the year for many, Love it - or Hate it. I have worked hard all over the Festive Seasons for more than 30 years, never experiencing a restful, TV and movies, glass of something, good food and company and just a friendly relaxing time, as I am working 18 hours a day... and am even part of the entertainment in the evenings, so - the thought of a ' nothing to do' Christmas sounds wonderful to me.
Smelly cheezy dicks.
Foreskins, Love or Hate them. There is nothing I enjoy more than a decent uncut dick.
There is nothing that revolts me more than a smelly cheezy foreskin. It utterly revolts when soap and water are so easy to use. There are too many men who know too little about penis maintenance and cleanliess and too many deformed dicks because parents didn't do a good enough job educating their sons on foreskin / cock cleanliness.
Too many tight foreskins that do not retract. Too many cock heads withheld back from full growth potential because of too tight a foreskin.
BUT I LOVE FORESKINS - although I am cut myself ( my mother made a pair of shoes out of my twin brother and my foreskins... ha ha ) shame there are so many nasty ones out there but that is all down to personal hygiene and personal maintenance.
If you are deaf, you know it isolates and so you get a hearing aid,.
If you know you have a smelly dick ( on a long hot sweaty day perhaps ) and yet do nothing about washing and keeping it clean if and when you go and visit someone for sex. Some people simply do not get it...
What I do.
Many say things like ' I hate what I do ' and my answer has always been, then leave, find a different job, boyfriend, house, town, dress sense, whatever it is. Change it and do it yourself and stop complaining when you do fuck all to make changes. It isn't easy and it needs guts to just walk out and start anew, but it has to better than staying stuck in something you hate, be it a job, a relationship or anything. Being scared to leave - cripples - It means your GET UP AND GO, HAS GOT UP AND GONE and you are left in the shaddows. Only you can do it. Only you live inside your skin. Only you can make the world - YOUR WORLD - a better place where there is less hate and more love. Do not rely on otjhers to sort your life out and do not depend on others when you are very capable.
Office work.
There are many fine hair dressers out there - who decide to open their own salon, and then hate the business side of things. Like in any profession, there are many good workers who go into business and while being good workers, they - like me - are shit office managers who hate paperwork and worry and have nightmares about all the various licenses, taxes, restrictions, health & safety ,music license, karake license,- food hygiene etc...then there's Business Insurance and Business Council tax - and it can become just too over powering for many. Now with a whole new taxation system for small business starting this April 1st, and where many - after lockdown, have never fully recovered financially, and many will simply retire and bang goes another small business never to return and do not complain your High Street is empty of shops. One friend with his own small micro business has decided to fill shelves in Tesco as he earns 3 times the wage, no wories, knows his times of work by schedule and is reliable and a safe job so - why work 18 hours a day for fuck all in your own venue.
Religion.
The Church of Rome has done so much mass murder, genocide,
This has been the cause of mass murder, genocide and multi millions lives ruined and all in the name of a ' so called LOVING GOD' - when the God may be all loving but his servants, the church, is anything but. Some religious organisations are the most evil, corrupt, morally disgusting and full of avoidance if and when something goes wrong and these institutions should have been barred centuries ago. They do not teach the word of God, they teach what they want to gain control, choir boys and power, and not always in that order.
Organised religion can be wonderful but is can and is used to gain control and power over the human soul and that limits those who do not agree and God would be disgusted at that.
The so called GAY COMMUNITY.
There isnt one.
There is no such thing as a gay community. There is a mixture of bars, restaurats and even publications ( and hotels ) yet they bitch and fight amongst themselves and there really is no cohesion between organisations and there is no such thing as a community. Not since HIV and AIDS broght a great many together and since then, it has fragmented worse than ever and largely because of the interet where people meet online and not through a bar and friends and this isolates even worse than before. Love it or hate it, the gay scene destroys far more than it supports.
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John Bellamy
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