Q & A - 29/03/26
- Mar 27
- 7 min read
John: I was also a sex worker back in te '80's. It fucked me up. I ended up with no money after I was diagnosed HIV+ and felt obliged to quit the business. I lived on benefits for the next 10 years until medication improved my health and I was fit enough to go back to work, in Tesco night shift filing shelves ( it pays well ) and I ended up with a fucked up sex life and no friends after the money stopped coming in. Can I ask how you ended up so well, emotionally, financially and it seems from your Newsletter, as if you have your act together. Jason.
Joson: I always stayed true to my Inner Spiritual Journey, which I have felt since a child. Not religious, not a follower of any cult, just my inner guides - or my gutt instinct - showing and pointing me in the right direction.
I also made sure that everything I did, within my financial boundary, was to offer a 5 STAR GOLD SERVICE in everything I did, and this proved the correct thing to do, as compared to most sex workers at the time, I was 4 or 5 times busier than most and I can say without a shaddow of doubt, I was the best available.
I also made sure I ALWAYS practiced SAFE SEX and while fucking tens of thousands, and after 15 years full time, I never caught anthing and am still HIV Negative.
You have to stay true to who you are and not allow the business to ' run away wth you' and take you down the rabbit hole for which there is no return. You will not be a sex worker for ever. The money will stop. Save and invest as much as you can - while you can - for as long as you can - and always be aware that one day - soon - it will end and you will need some financial backing unless you are content with a council flat and a job in Tesco - and after living the high life, that fall may hurt.
WATCH HERE - HOW AND WHY I BECAME A SEX WORKER by John Bellamy
When the leader of the free world ( that's a joke ) disrespects those who he sent into a war zone and got killed,and shows this lack of any kind of decent empathy or understanding for the family left behind, then this is one leader we can all do without. He really does think we are all scum here to serve him. He and the man formerly known as Prince Andrew would get on well here, as both seem to think the world owes them something and how we are all here just to serve.
1. Pretending to be on your phone is the most common way to avoid an awkward person or situation.
2. In Italy, it’s not a crime to steal food if you are hungry.
3. In Portland, an author who wrote a book called “How To Murder Your Husband” has today been convicted of murdering her husband. ( Now THAT is one dumb bitch... )
4. The electric chair was invented by a dentist.
5. According to a study of over 3000 marriages, the more money you spend on an engagement ring, the more likely you are to get divorced.
6. China only has 1 time zone. France has 12.
7. Delete your browser cookies before you buy airline tickets. Ticket prices go up when you visit travel site multiple times.
8. Drinking 3 glasses of water before bed boosts your ability to remember your dreams.
9. Every December, every year, Mariah Carey makes over a $1 million in royalties from her song ‘All I Want For Christmas Is You’.
10. An elephant’s brain has the same reaction to human as a human brain has to puppies and kittens. They think we’re cute.
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Because 1/3 of the country voted in the Tangerine Tosser, who has decided that he wants to bully every other nation using his zero sum business practices as US policy. In the process he has trashed every trade agreement that the USA had.
He has pissed off every country with his jingoistic rhetoric and outright lies.
His vice president is a pathetic “don’t forget about me” whiner who gets his giggles from flexing his authority. - he does not need a 22 car convoy when he travels.
His domestic policies are reminiscent of the Germans Fascist/Nazi party of the 1930’s ( and we all know where that led ).
He has done everything he can to break up NATO, while cosying up to Putin, and Netanyahu seeming to seek approval from other global dictators.
He lies, he makes disgusting fun of people with disabilities, he rubbishes genuine American heroes because they refuse to kowtow to him, calling them ' loosers.'- he thinks that he’s a strong man - yet ran away from serving his country when called upon.
And this is the guy that 1/3 of Americans voted in for the second time.
You had 4 years to put him to justice after the January 6th attempted coup, but you sat on it. You had the Trump-Epstein files and yet did nothing with them - and now Trump has had the DOJ redact them.
Your nation is the only first world country where you can go bankrupt if you’re ill.
You fetishise the ownership of weapons - offering thoughts and prayers when another school gets shot up, rather than actually doing something about it.
In short the USA has spent decades looking down on the rest of the world, and yet your own country has been backsliding for the past twenty years into the complete shithole that it is today.
And the rest of the World has finally said “Enough” we are moving on without the USA because we can no longer rely on yo and we MOST CERTAINLY cannot trust you ever again. And even if we could, we prefer to look elsewhere, it's time for America to learn to be a little humble of others and not such a typical damned bully all the time. You are NOT the greatest country on the planet as - what other country has mass school shootings..... by school children themselves ?
I rest my case.
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Dear John: I am mid 50's. I saw your Community Living web site. Am I too young to come stay with you for a 6 month period.
Randolph ( Rome )
Not at all. All ages are welcome for long stays here. Get in touch and we can talk. JB
Dear John: Loved last weeks newsletter - especially the naked men page. Worthy of a Sunday morning wank of two. I do also spend a couple of hours reading your news items and not just the cock pictures. I admire your work ethic. Simon ( Yorkshire )
John: I was either going to come stay with you for a fortnight or go to Thailand and got talked into going to Thailand and GOD I wish I hadn't. I broke my wrist while pissed drunk one evening in a karaoke bar and what a joke that is. Hospitals and doctors, insurance claims, Tour reps and ruining my friends last week as I was a right little misery. Tried to make the best of it but it was my right wrist and how I wank with my right hand - it completely changed my plans for a sexy holday and I might as well have come and stayed with you where I would not have broken my wrist and could at least have enjoyed the occasional wank. I am home now and still in plaster for another 3 weeks and - this was one holiday I wish I'd made different plans for.
Stuart ( Short Fat Stuart ... )
So sorry to hear. I offered Stuart a few free days as my guest in the hopes he can have his cake and eat it but I didn't offer to be his right hand for him ... ha ha JB
I am late 60's and while in good health, I do have old age problems. Wife died 2 years ago. Kids all live abroad. I am alone for first time in decades. Feel isolated. Was always bi sexual but wife never knew. I did nothing for so long. Now feel maybe it's my time to explore. Never done the whole gay thing. Not into crowds.
Where do I start. Where do I go. How to I behave that is not rude. Can you advice.
Roger H. ( Eastbourne )
I e mailed Roger and invited him down for a few days as my guest so we can talk and share and I can give him some pointers and directions and advice on Safe Sex etc. and the dangers of mixing on the gay scene - as it is a minefied out there where many gay men eat their own and stab others in the back and unless you are protected, the gay scene can be a nasty viscious place. JB
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Had an interesting exchange this week. An e mail arrived from a stranger which just said
'How much'
I answerd in the same manner
'For what ?'
He answered a
'A room.'
I answered
'For how many people ?'
and he answered
'One.;
I answered
'For how many nights and when ?'
He answered
'He wasn't sure.'
So I answered
'Then I cannot help you or give you a price if you don't know how many nights you want.'
he answered
'That's not very helpful.'
I answered
'All information is on our web site. Please check the site for ALL information you may require. Multiple e mails asking the same thing, we offer no Special Offer or Discounted price as multiple e mails makes more work and wastes my time. Please be responsible and professional if and when doing business with Hamilton Hall .'
Funny, cos I never heard again... ha ha ... It never fails to amaze me how many people are so cronically unprofessional in business: how so many don't know decent manners - how to lay out a letter - how to use punctuation and capitals, paragraphs and gaps between sentences...
It frustrates.
John Bellamy
You make, and take, from the news that which you wish to see and hear. You observe what you want and comment of things that affect you personally. If you don't like something, do not read it and move on but do not shy away from what IS going on in the world of which - you are a part. World news is so easy to find these days and differing opinions not hard to find. Having an opinion is vital and being a ' don't care' person helps no one. So open your mind - open your heart - open your awareness and ALWAYS be open to new ideas.
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