New Year and he couldn't behave.
gg
One New Years Eve over a decade ago - I took pity on a local guy whom I had never met a who called to ask if he could join our Naked New Years Eve Party for FREE as he was broke, unemployed and alone all over the festive season - and me - being the kind hearted generous soul that I am, said yes.
He arrived and everything seemed okay and with a full house of guests and a few other local friends, we were busy as hell. New Years Eve I am working from 7am - until well after midnight without a break - solid work - and remember, I do not get a wage and after an hour or so, I began to get complaints from my paying guests about the obnoxious manner from this freebee - and I eventually had to pay it attention and eventually throw him out - literally and physically - at 11.45pm - just before midnight when I am rushed off my feet, as EVERYONE was up in arms concerning his obnoxious attitude, totally condscending manner ( which for a FREEBEE came over as patulant spolied brat ) and his whole agressive nasty manner eventually showed itself to me and that was it.
He actually stated I had no right to throw him out - and as the owner, manager, BOSS , facilitator, cook and general dogs body here - and as I own the place thankyou - with no mortgage owed to any bank or anything, I think I have the right to do whatever I like within my own venue and if and when someone is acting up, as in this case, OF COURSE I HAVE THE RIGHT TO THROW HIM OUT - and regardless of the time, if someone cannot behave and show a little respect, ESPECIALLY TOWARDS ME - THE HOST - WHO HAS ALLOWED THIS FREEBEE TO JOIN US IN THE FIRST PLACE, then this little fuck up of a creep will and did get thrown out.
I felt bad for him but went straight back to making sure it was forgotten and over with IMMEDIATELY as I did not want it to spoil the evening for my guests, and pleased to say, as soon as he left, the aura - the atmosphere changed and returned to the usual warm, friendly and supportive environment it usually is - and we partied and had a great evening - but only once he had left.
It hurts. It makes my soul bleed. As here was a stranger in my home at New Year misbehaving - and it shocks as it disgusts that someone - ANYONE - could so take advantage and not a single thankyou, kind word, appreciative glance or anything. All we got was this young mans bitter envy, resentment that we had something while he had little - and the manner he decided to knock and belitle everyone WHO HAD PAID and through their money paid, was enabling him to attend for free, and I have to say, this is NOT the first time someone here for a free stay has been so obnoxious we have had to throw them out and it is not the first time I have offered a free stay and been abused in return.
It absoutely staggers the manner of some people and I DO NOT - EVER - make them feel uncomfortable as a freebee and my other guests did not know he was here for free - and the nerve of some people, the fucking cheek - the staggeringly wrong attitude offered - leaves me open mouthed and them out in the rain and the cold.
I do not expect a grovelling thankyou. I do not expect praise and glory for doing what I consider to be 'the decent thing' and I do not do it for any other reason than that could be me on the doorstep alone and lonely looking into a party I am not invited to and I am reminded that while my life has been so full, many others have not been so lucky and for that, I have always shared, openly and freely - so no one needs feel left out or not good enough.
So would I do it again, allow a complete stranger into my home to join in the festivities - no I would not. I say that - but it does depend how they ask, who they are, what manner they ask in and so forth as - despite being bitten so many times, as this was not the first, I will still help, still offer and probably still be dissappointed if and when it turns ugly.
I do however, these days, have a husband who would stop me before I get carried away with feling sorry for them and will guide me accordingly.
My hope and my dream is that they behave, help share in the good vibes and help the evening go with a swing... and for that, I shall always be open for.
John Bellamy
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