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Sorry I couldn't be at your last Cock and Ball Weekend. How did it go ?
I hear great things on other events ? Roger ( Wimbledon )
Like any weekend , it always depends on those attending. Some time ago I was going to stop the C&B workshop as one weekend not a soul joined in, and it was a struggle to get a conversation from anyone, they all just sat there and watched and not a soul did anything - a real desperate struggle to get anything out of them and it's times like that that I do wonder WTF ??? - but then, the next attracted a group of guys who really bonded, shared a good laugh ad enjoyed each other - so it wasn't the end, it as just a bad group. This last weekend was also a great laugh and great fun was had by all and some very deep and penatrative truths shared for mind, body and soul. Naked almost throughout, with Interconnected breathing and Meditation, I think everyone went home with happy memories, many saying they will be back.
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Idiot “questions” like you are a start of the problem.
There is no pretence. We don't like STUPID people.
English is not the American language. America has NO official language and by sheer numbers, more people speak Spanish. English is a European language from England. You know - Great Britain - or the United Kingdon - the country that ruled most the planet when you - as a country - were still just a pipe dream in your daipers - The similarities in the words is a subtle clue. You speak English and we are from England. Do you get it yet ?
“European” is not a language, Europe is a continent with many nations the speak many languages.
Europeans do not want to speak English over their own languages. Europeans are generally well educated, cosmopolitan and open minded. You are a parochial American idiot and it is idiots like this that drags the USA down way below most other countries as it is full of idiots like this and many are in Government.
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Dear John: My weekend with you, you had 3 cancellations at the last minute. is this common. Jake.
Since lockdown we have experienced more cancellations and more 'no shows' than before. All are fully paid and they loose their money so we are paid but it is not the same when we have so few people staying as some have either canceled or, like last weeked, 2 didn't show up at all, no voicemail, no e mail, just no shows. I phone and leave a concerned message hoping things are ok, but never heard back so - nothing I can do about that. We have a strict cancellation policy and if we didn't stick to it we would have been forced to close decades ago as the amount of people who think it's okay to mess us about and then not turn up and if I was not as strict about advance payments, we would have an empty hotel with no money coming in. MANY on the gay scene like to take advantage, abuse and mess about. They would never get away with it in a Hilton or some big corporate hotel so why the think they can play these games with a smaller privately owned gay venue, is beyond me.
Dear John: I have been married for 45 years.
We have 2 grown daughters and 5 grandchildren.
Throughout our relationship my wife and I hardly ever had sex. Her fault and not mine. It was a fairly sexless relationship and I put up with it because I am a faithul person and once I commit, I commit - but I have been sexually starved for over 4 decades. Once a month in the dark doesn't cut it for me. Now after all these years I discovered Hamiton Hall and gay sex and OH MY GOD JOHN, free sex, any kind of sex, where anything goes, and RIMMING, well that was a new one on me and having my dick worshipped for hours without instantly coming and putting ' Newsnight' on straight after, was a dream come true. I always knew I was interested in men but never took the opportunity until recently and I now realise what I have been missing and the wasted decades. I'm probably a bit like a kid in the candy store sexually - like some imature teenager who wants to try everything in the sweetshop all at once, as I am innocent to good sex and OH MY GOD JOHN, this whole new sexuality has opened up for me and I intend visiting again and again and seeing where this dream takes me.
Brian D.
I replied to Brian and invited him down for a few days as my guest as for someone new to the scene, there are some guidelines and precautions he needs be aware of to save him any problems. We all know how back stabbing the gay scene can be, and how two faced, and with a little guidance Brian should be able to manouvre the scene with less problems.
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I did laugh when I read this question as how can anyone show themselves to be so dumb assed uneducated ? How can anyone be this stupid and arrogant.
I ABSOLUTELY DESPAIR - as when an American can come up with such uneducated and clearly dumb assed comments, such as this, then it beggars belief how the USA ever got to be so mighty when so many of the people are so INCREDIBLY IGNORANT.
Do Americans comprehend that, for all their military might and power, they have not won a single armed conflict with ANY adversary since 1945? At present American aircraft are stationed all over the continent, which might enhance US chances, but if Trump continues to annoy his allies this may change.
Americans do not own Europe and even thinking it does is so stupid - it takes my breath away. Their ownership of Britain, the highest in the EU, is about 13% for historical financial reasons. The average elsewhere is less than 3%. The average defence budget per nation in the EU is about 2% of GDP. Trump is urging NATO members to spend more. The USA spends 4.2% ( ths highest in the world ) and would like us to match that figure. But the USA does not commit its entire military to Europe and NATO. Perhaps 40%. Remember that you need a 3:1 advantage to attack - 5:1 if by sea, so the USA's jackboot would get wet and soggy and probably fall off before an attempt at subjugation was complete.
America's weakness is in its leadership. And the attitude of your question and the absolute ignorance shown - saddens that a nation actually believes such a crock of shit.
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John: My wife and her family kicked me out of my own home after she went through my phone and saw Grindr and she called her brothers to come and pack my things and kick me out.
So I stopped paying the mortgage and stopped all Direct Debits paying for all the utilities and Sky TV and I even stopped her car payments and insurance - as she had made it perfectly clear I was not to be involved in her life again. Being self employed, she cannot attach my earnings or get me in trouble with my ' boss' - as I am my own boss.
A month after she threw me out and changed the locks, she panicked when she found out she was going to have to get a job and pay the household expenses and she screamed at me that it was my job to support her, (she assumed, stupidly, that I would just keep paying the bills even though not living there ) and as I replied, it is NOT my job to support her at all, we had no kids, her choice, and as she threw me out and changed the locks so, she can pay the mortgage and utilities unless - as I pointed out - she wants to loose the house and then it will be up to her to rehouse herself.
Anyway John:- The house went into forclosure, I paid the utiities up until I was thrown out when they were transfered to my wifes name ( she had no idea I had done this, but what the fuck ) and she hasn't stopped screaming or putting vindictive things on social media about me, but it all went against her and she is now living with her Mother - who she never got on with, as she had nowhere else to go.
So rather than talk and discuss and change the goal posts like adults, and because she always wanted everything her way - and where my opinion never counted or was even allowed to be voiced, she has everything she wanted - me out of the house - but she didn't get the house - she didn't get the car - she didn't get the single lifestyle she assumed she was going to continue, just with me not in the picture but paying for everything.
She did me a favour as I found Hammy Hall, found good gay sex and friendship with no strings attached, unlike any straight friendship I have experienced - and I couldn't be happier. As for my wife - er - X wife now, i don't know and I don't care.
Roger M. ( Milford on Sea )
An Englishman, taking a road trip through the US, notices he’s low on fuel, pulls into the first gas station he sees. The attendant walks out and approaches the car.
“How can I help you, sir?”
And in a posh voice, the man says, “I’m low on petrol; please top off the tank.”
With an odd look, the guy begins to fill ’er up.
The Englishman then says, “Also, while I’m here could you open the bonnet and check the oil?”
Now looking slightly peeved but still saying nothing, the serviceman does as requested.
“Oh, yes,” says the Brit, “It appears my windscreen needs a good cleaning. Would you mind terribly-”
Unable to hold his tongue any more the attendant angrily snaps, “Alright, that’s enough! It’s not Petrol, it’s gasoline! It’s not a bonnet, it’s a hood! And it’s not a windscreen, it’s a windshield! We invented cars, so you call them by their American names!”
And with that wonderful, charming, stiff-upper-lip UK wit, the Englishman calmly replies, “Well yes, my friend, you may have invented the automobile, but we invented the language!”
America has over 342 million people and obviously these questions come from the dumbest, most uneducated , thick and a bucket of rocks dim shits. Every country has them, it just seems that America is currently governed by them and this gives other dim shits permission to advertise their stupidity with questions like this :-
The USA can defend itself without Europe quite easily - at the moment. What would happen if trump pulls out? Well, NATO was the USA’s idea in the first place, as a way of ensuring any wars would not be fought on their home soil, so breaking that commitment would reflect badly on them. They would lose the enormous amount of intelligence gathered by other NATO countries, which would be a nightmare for their home security. They would lose all their European bases, which as staging posts are vital for projecting power around the globe. They would lose billions of dollars in exporting arms to NATO countries, as we couldn’t rely on them as trading partners. They would lose a lot of top notch back-up, such as the precision bombing capabilities of the RAF and others, and the high-tech naval craft backing up their bloated navy. They would have few friends in an increasingly hostile world. And for what? To save a bit of cash in their budget?
You make, and take, from the news that which you wish to see and hear. You observe what you want and comment of things that affect you personally. If you don't like something, do not read it and move on but do not shy away from what IS going on in the world of which - you are a part. World news is so easy to find these days and differing opinions not hard to find. Having an opinion is vital and being a ' don't care' person helps no one. So open your mind - open your heart - open your awareness and ALWAYS be open to new ideas.
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