Diping in and out when it suits you is not good for the community
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Had a great time at Hamilton Hall recently. I was nervous about being trans. My wife knows and a few intimate friends but no one else. I asked beforehand and John said it was fine. I arrived, I changed into my ladies attire, and as I hesitantly came down stairs, John greeted me in the hall so friendly and so informally, just asked my ladies name and we chatted as if nothing was out of the ordinary. It was a delight and the other guests accepted and acknowledged my trans and it really was total acceptance.
Thanks John. I shall tell my friends. Martin ( Betty )
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John' - I have been trans for over 40 years. Fully a women. I am appalled at the modern trans and how policically motivated they are and how obnoxious they can be. I kept a low profile, got through it all with very little trouble and became the women I always wanted to be and - vanished to live the straight womens life I always wanted.
I DID NOT immediately live the full on trans lifestyle marching, screaming about my rights, holding the gay community hostage with bad attitudes and abusing the gay community for what they did to get us what advancements we do have, and it was not us the trans community who got the laws changed, it was gay men and many trans seem to have forgotten that in their entitled arrogance.
Cynthia.
I am married and have been for over 35 years. I am also a Cross Dresser or as some say- . I am Trans. I don't want to become a women. I don't want tits or a vagina and am quite happy with my mans bits and do not want ladies things other than when I dress up, and then it has to be AOK.
I feel like a man most of the time. Not gay. Not interested in ladies things and love football and all sports, even go with me mates to local matches and scream at the opposition - real manly stuff I suppose.
If my mates knew I dressed like a lady, they would, i think, look at me VERY differently and probably would not like it.
So i keep it between my wife and myself and those I meet at the Baumont Society.
Recently when on business in London I decded to dress and go out to a meeting of other ladies, and we met in a central london gay bar and this was the first time for me in a gay bar and the first home truth was brought home to me.
We trans who are married and not gay as I am straight and want women - use the gay scene if and when we see fit and feel comfortable to use the various clubs, pubs etc. aimed at the gay community and yet, i got shouted at by a gay man that using the gay scene if and when it suits us does not help support, and where were we trans when the gay men were fighting for the legal approval the scene now enjoys and - as he screamed - us trans are now riding on the coat tails of what the gay men achieved in getting laws changed and because of our negative and ' entitled manner' which even the gay scene cannot abide, we are dragging the gay community down to our - as he called it - ' our fucked up mentality of taking over anything and everything that is not theirs in order to achieve their goals - but does so by screwing the gay scene.'
I had to think about that for a while and I must admit he was true. We do take from the gay scene and we do not give appreciation and thanks to the many gay men - NOT TRANS - BUT GAY MEN - who fought and went to prison fighting for LGBT rights and we trans were nowhere to be seen during that fight, even I stayed away and just watched on the TV.
So thankyou to the gay men who made our trans lives possible and easier.
Geoff ( Jane )
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