Straight Man frustrated by no sex relationship

gaymen2
Jul 25
4 min read

I am a straight man. Married for 20 years with 4 kids - 19, 17, 15 and 12. We have 2 boys and 2 girls.

Between trying for children, there was no sex with my wife. It came as a shock on the wedding night when she declared now she had the ring on her finger, she was done and didn't need sex again. She told me flat out early on AFTER we were married that she never needed or wanted sex again unless it was to make a family.

Woopeee - in a relationship with a deep freeze.

Sadly, she got pregnant VERY easiy and I hoped each time it might take a while so I / we could have some fun. Not happening.

She caught me wanking late at night one time and went bolistic, I screamed back that as she was such a terrible wife - no affection, no cuddles, no sex, and absolutey no interest in me at all, would she rather I beat off or go find a new ' play mate' as I was only human and she may be happy living like a Nun, but I am not going to allow her to inflict that kind of lifestyle on me. She kept saying it was disgusting and adolescent. I put up with it for a few months more and eventually packed and left one afternoon while she was out. Took everything that was mine. The house was paid for - and she had a job to pay her bills with, and I was out of there.

We always had gay friends and they were a couple who were very supportive of me at this time as they understood and were good listeners and good at not taking sides but understood the shere frustration of it all. I stayed with them for a few months while I sorted out an apartment for myself and - she never knew where I was - and nor did she ever ask or try and find out -

Well :- One evening we had sex, the two gay guys and me, and while I was so nervous I was shaking, they told me to just lay back, close my eyes and enjoy a hot mouth, which to be honest, I had never had a mouth around my cock before - and this blew me away - literally.

I was so embarrassed afterwards and avoided the guys for a few days and they promised to keep it between us and never tell my wife - and - well - it did happen again and this time I got to fuck one of them and OH MY GOD what a difference. Not only because it was tighter, but he was so receptive - so into it, so enjoying every stroke and not just laying there staring at the ceiling looking bored to tears and wishing it was over, like wifey.

I am a straight man and if I could meet a women who was as sexy as I am and was as receptive to things as I am, BINGO - but it is so much easier for gay men and so, we continue the three of us to have regular sex and this has been an eye opener.

I have since divorced my wife and while still single, working and paying all that is due for the kids, I have nothing to do with ' the refrigerator; any more and am sexually very happy after two decades of nothing at all.

Better late than never I suppose but I do think if born again, I would probably want to be a gay man and feel affection towards another man, but sex is all I can offer as emotionally, women - but sex - men. Anytime. If the right women came along, woopeee but in the meantime, i am enjoying agreat sexlife with you gays... not emotional, just physical, and it's great fun like I had never known before. I had no idea sex could be so varied and enjoyable and not just suffered.

RK.