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I do not need a penis to be a man


Oh really, then I would love to see how you take a piss standing up if you don't have a penis.
Oh really, then I would love to see how you take a piss standing up if you don't have a penis.

If you do not have a penis then chances are you have the alternative to a penis, which is a vagina.

Unless of course you are born like ' Action Man' with just a moulded lump where your genitalia should be.


If you have a vagina that makes you a woman.

If you have a penis that makles you male.

PERIOD.

You can be straight or gay or lesbian or even happily bisexual.

These are not choices, these are natural, you either are or you are not. It comes to you naturally.

It is not an ala carte menue where you get to choose to be gay or lesbian any more than it is a choice to be straight.


If you make changes to your exterior body and become something different to the sex you were born with - then you are not a man - but a trans man - and not a women, but a trans women.

Perfectly acceptable in my world. BUT:-

You cannot sire children from a fake penis any more than you can grow a child in your non existant womb.

Stop telling us you can.


If when you die and they dig you up decades later and examine your skeletal remains, it will indicate quite clearly which sex, male or female, you were born and NOT the one you chose to be.

I fully support trans rights BUT the manner of agressivness and abuse some trans are throwing around is insulting to anyone and everyone and very insulting to the LGB world whose coat tails you have been riding around on for decades and now through your agressive manner shown, are causing problems for LGB and we do not deserve it. We have already fought our fight for acceptance in law and we continue to fight for genuine equality and sadly, too many trans are screwing with the whole thing and dragging others down with them.

Question: If you go through all the operations and change your sex, why constantly live the trans lifestyle and on and off the gay scene all the time.

You are now the man or women to always wanted to be, so after much heartache and physical and emotional pain and hardship, you become that which you desire to be - so why not be that man or women and disapear into society as that man or women and why - oh why - do you constantly hark on about being trans all the time, unless for attention. I do not scream I am gay all the time, I just am. Why do so many trans feel the desire to scream they are trans and complain all the time when they feel disrespected when they offer fuck all in return and just make more demands.


We had an old lady live in a village here in Dorset and when she died aged in her 80's it was discovered she was a man all along. No one knew. No one had to know. It wan't their business.

Why do so many trans become political mouthpieces - often screaming untruths and mistruths and making demands that are un deserved - and why can't they just vanish into society as this old girl did for decades.


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Janice wrote to me some time ago and apologies Janice, but I mislaid your e mail and recently found it... so much for my organisational skills huh ... JB


John:


When I was 8 years of age, fireworks in my pockets went off and blew up and I was hospitalised with serious burns to my genitalia. I remember very little about it but because the explosion had destroyed 85% of my penis and testicles, it was decided to give me a sex change, as back then in the mid 1960's, it is what was considered the best choice.

I don't really remember post op at all and only remember being a girl and it wasn't until I started growing a beard and hairs on my chest that I started taking hormones and to my surprise, my parents kept the truth from me for another two decades.

I had no idea.

I just knew I had to take medication but they never said what it was for until much later on.

I trusted. I never thought to question.

It destroyed me.

To have been lied to by my own parents.

To have kept that from me.

I wouldn't speak to them for years after that and this broke my Mothers heart.

It took me a lot of therapy and talking to counsellors before I could talk to my Mother again and we have made up those lost years and are now very close.

I have been Janice for most of my life and will die a Janice but inside, I do feel male and I have never had a relationship as I am still a bit confused about who and what I am and expecting someone else to acept is - maybe - asking too much. I was always attracted to women but never thought of myself as lesbian.

I am 70 this year and have come to terms with what I am and shall never know what it feels like to have a genuine loving partner, but maybe, that was my unfi]ortunate destiny.

Janice F. ( Blackpool )


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