married and gay
- 9 hours ago
- 4 min read
'You won't tell anyone I'm gay, will you, as I'm married ? '' he said just after we had fucked for an hour.
Most of my clients were straight married men and here they were having sex wth a gay sex worker.
Many mentioned how drab and totally boring their sex life was ' at home' especially after the kids came along and after years of married life and having sex with the same person all the time, can become boring, and repititive and being as so many of these men were actually - secretly more bi and gay than straight, enjoying a safe and exciting hour wth me in a full sex room, was a fantasy for many, and a means to help keep the marriage together.
As long as he can play outside . discretely, it saves the marriage as sexual frustration kills any relationship dead.
That's not to say the wife is not feeling the same - and maybe there are those wives out there playing the field discretely as well, but from my experience, if a man asks his wife for sex - she will often have a headache or some other excuse, whereas if a woman asks her man for sex, it's like a lap dog with its tongue hanging out 'YES YES YES YES YES ...NOW NOW NOW....' and he will be even more in pig shit heaven if you bring beer.
Some people assume men to be complicated, when we really are not. Women are complicated. Not just their health stuff, but their wants and desires are very different to a mans and we are really two very different species.
Women have ' girlfriends' and they hang out and do girlie things like talk about their shoes, hair and make up while we men want beer and to talk about the game ( well - your average straight man... ) or if its gay men, we want to get together and shag.
Men are a lot less complicated.
To a man, a women is complicated and really hard to understand as women change the rules of engagement all the time and the poor man, can hardy learn one set of rules before they are changed and he is expected to know and adhere to the new rules... and this can be infuriating.
Women are the real leaders and strong ones.
Imagine if we men had to bleed monthly - and for many women this is a serious monthly problem with crapms and all sorts. Imagine the complaining if the roles were reversed - men would winge all the time while women just get on with it.
Men are babies. Sex is a great pacifier and if only more people - globally - would lighten up concerning sexuality then I truly believe the world would be abeytter and more peaceful place. but sex has a strange hold on many and it is used as a weapon of control - too much - and then anger, bitterness, rape and sexual dysfunction.
Men are sick and tired of being treated like a child by scathing mothers who feel it is their duty to ut the ' child' in iots place and soooo many men are simply sick and tired of the attitude of women being so fucked up, that they simply can't be bothered with women any more, as it's too draining on the human soul. Ot is all onbe sded, it is all about what she wants and the man is suppose to supply. THAT is NOT how it works and no wonder so many women complain they cannot find a man, then drop your fucked up attitude and demands and meet him half way - HALF WAY - and then maybe something can be worked out.
When these women withold sex from their husbands and claim things like the above, how does that make the husband feel, that the wife squirms at the thought of having sex with her husband ? How does he feel when he finds out that for years she has dreaded every night and every made up headache and fake illness just to get out of having sex with your beloved. Then she complains when he gets it some place else. She will sceam about being abandoned when it was HER who abandoned him - sexually - and she just expects things to carry on the way she wants and he has no input - so he rightly plays the field as she aint forthcoming any more, and then she has the nerve to complain ?????
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