sex pays - sex destroys - if you let it.
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SEX WORK PAYS -
BUT - SEX WORK CAN DESTROY !
Have you ever been paid for sex ?
Have you ever paid someone else for sex ?
It seems the dfference is that when the pubic know your face and point fingers, it fucks a lot of people up.
Personally, being known as a former sex worker brings me great pride - GREAT PRIDE -and anyone who assumes to ' put me down' or try and treat me as anything less - will get a short and very sharp re education from me as to how backward, how dumb, how ignorant they are and how unevolved their outlook is.
Every man or women that goes out on a date with someone and the other person is expected to pay for dinner and you ' come accross sexually ' after dinner as a way of saying thankyou - and - WE HAVE HEARD THIS SCENARIO A MILLION TIMES - and what do you think the person is doing by having sex with the guy who just paid for dinner - THEY ARE PAYING IT BACK WITH THEIR BODY - SO - YOU ARE A PROSTITUTE FOR THE PRICE OF A MEAL.
SO THAT MAKES YOU NOTHING BUT A CHEAP WHORE.
AT LEAST WHEN I WENT OUT WITH A CLIIENT I GOT DINNER AND PAID AT THE END OF THE EVENING - HANDSOMELY PAID, IN HARD CASH. Back in the 80's and 90's I was paid between £100 - £200 an hour for an outcall to the customers hotel or home PLUS cab fare, and as much as some people will always resent and offer a negative attitude, KNOW THIS - most are pig shit jealous of the sex and the money - pure and simple, and claiming moral disgust just shows what hypocrits SO MANY ARE - and that - actually - makes me laugh as I CLEARLY have something - am doing something - that others cannot and do not have, and no big deal, we all have our ' party trick' - and some are good at things you are not, and vica versa.
Now THAT is how it is done - and then you SAVE THE MONEY EARNED and put it to good use for the future. You do not spend it on drugs, clothes, holidays and showing off to your friends as when the money stops coming in, these ' friends' will soon vanish into the ether.
So why are so many people on Only Fans so insecure about their future and people knowing who thay are and what they have done in the past, as sorry - but - 'WHO THE FUCK GIVES ANYONE THE RIGHT TO JUDGE ANOTHER' - and the reason many porn stars committ suicide is because of the resentful, jealous, envious attitude thrown at them by the public who want to put you down while really resenting you for having what it takes to sell sex when, in all probability they would LOVE to be good enough to be paid for sex, but they do not have what it takes and so, hate those who do.
Being a sex worker is one thing - having your face eternalised on video for the world to see, seems too much for some and the harrasment from within the community destroys so many young men and many - sadly - cannot take it and see only one way out.
Tragic and final.
Especially HATED are straight women who sell themselves on Only Fans as no guy wants her after she quits and no guy wants to have her as a wife and mother to his kids or take her home to meet his Mother - whereas in the gay world, it is less of a problem as gay men have a very different world view surrounding sexuality and sexual contact and a great many things that would get a straight man arrested and jailed - are laughed at in gay circles and if someone pinches my butt - I am complimented and do not run sceaming rape and crying like a banshee and getting the man jailed...
This book was written some decades ago and if you read it you will recognice CASE 106 as being me. I met the author again some years after the book was released and he admitted that out of all the hundreds he interviewed for the book, I was the only one he would recognise and remember and how I was the only one he knew would have a successful career outside / after leaving the sex industry... and what a compliment.
Serious and genuine sexual assault, be it straight or gay, is not to be tolerated and any form of agressive demanding / rape - must be punnishable - and people reeducated - but all too often when a fake rape is screamed and eventually found to be false, the person screaming the fake rape should be prosecuted, jailed and put on the Sex Offenders Register as - what they have done, is sexual violence without the sex.
How many times on Judge Judy when a man is sueing a women and when it appears she is loosing the case - suddenly claims he sexually assaulted and made inapporpriate advances etc. and even Judge Judy ignores most of these as fake as if real, a report would have been made to the police and when nothing has been done, then it is clear that many use sex as a tool to manipulate, blame, put down and destroy and anyone using this as a manipuative tool to destroy, then they should be jailed and treated as a NONCE in prison.
So if you meet a sex worker or someone on a site selling themselves for hard cash, just be aware they are earning their income the best way they know how and it is no different to hating lawyers - baristers, policeman, priests, and even those who work in politics ( well - there are some limits I suppose... ) all are just earning a living so - stop your attitude. It is YOU - the public, who watch porn, wank of merrily to hot guys, but hate and resent those hot guys for being hot guys and this destroys. So put aside your petty jeapousy. Bannish your resentment and envy and grow the fuck up and see the world as we are all doing the best we can and if you don't like something someone else is doing, then look in the mirror and see your self and realise, you might not be much to right home about - so stop your nastiness and just let people live their lives any way they wish and as long as nothing involving children or cruelty is involved - then mind your own business.
"Nonce" has two primary, distinct meanings: a British slang term for a sex offender and a technical term for a "number used once" in cryptography and computer science. It also refers to a word coined for a single, specific occasion ("nonce word").
British Slang
Definition: A term, chiefly used in Britain, for a person who commits a sexual offense, particularly against children. Usage: It is often used as a severe insult, sometimes applied to individuals deemed "creepy".
Origin: Often believed to have originated in British prison slang, potentially as an acronym for
"Not On Normal Courtyard Exercise"
(NONCE), used to designate inmates who needed protection from the general population,
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