Straight Pride & 'Sex starved husband.'

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Had a discussion with a straight man recently who has a gay brother, and I thought was more ' enlightened' than he showed himself to Me when he asked -

' Why do we need a 'Gay Pride,' and why can't we have a 'Straight Pride.' and I was shocked.

I asked him if he actually knew WHY there was a Gay Pride and how for decades LGBT have been brutally beaten and murdered and the police and authorities did nothing and how we were jailed just for being gay and I barked loudly at him and he eventually got the point.

Here are some of the resons I gave in answer:-

1) WAR:-

You do not see gay men creating and causing the framework that causes the country to go to war. That is very straight mentality.

2) RAPE:

Women feel harassed by men in the street and there are many places women feel unsafe because of the fear of rape and with gay men - none of that.

3) PAEDOPHILIA

The VAST majority of child abusers are straight. The amount of gay men who sexually abuse young boys is miniscule compared to straight sexual dysfunctions against young girls, just look at the Pakistai Pedo rings in Rotherham and other areas where HUNDREDS of young girls have been subjected to sexual abuse by straight men and the police were afraid of being seen as racist, so did nothing ... ( says a lot huh ? )

4) BRUTALLY MURDERED

Many years ago a friend was beaten so badly he eventually died, and the murderers, a gang of boys aged between 12 an 14. He managged to crawl to a local phone box to phone an ambulance and the women on the phone would not get off the phone for 20 minutes while he lay bleeding on the pavement beside her begging her to call an ambulance, and she did nothing but continue her converation. He died in hospital that evening.

( Does that make you proud to be straight ??? - Still think you deserve a Straight pride ?' )

5) ABUSED IN PUBLIC

Inorance knows no bounds and when walking down the street to be harassed by people just because you are gay, is appalling. ' FUCKING FAGGOT - EVEN GOD HATES YOU, IT SAYS SO IN THE BIBLE,' was shoutd at me once. It was not the place for a theological debate on how the Bible DOES NOT SAY ANYTHING OF THE SORT and besides, GUARANTEED - the man who shouted it - HASN'T A CLUE WHERE IN THE BIBLE IT STATES THIS - and simply is repeating what his friend in the pub says and he is talking absolute bollocks.

Imagine if a straight man or women being shouted at because of something , everwhere they go and if you use the argument that some gays are too flambouyant, HOW WRONG IS THAT ARGUMENT that anyone who is camp or flambouyant - say - you - has to be screamed at by people who see this flambouyance as a threat to their masculinity and all this shows is what a baby some straights are and how immature to actually shout abuse at someone. How childish. It just shows their own insecurities.

6) SEX

This may be disputed but I seriously believe that many straight men are soooo jealous of gay men because only gay men know what good sex is. Straight men are SOOO restrained by what the women wants and it is VERY LIMITED compared to man to man action... Sexual frustration is ENORMOUS in straight circles with the vast majority of married men state they are sexually frustrated and desperate for sex. This causes family arguments, sexual dysfunction, abuse, rape and even murder - and all because of sexual frustration.

7) GET A GRIP

When women tell men who say they are sexually frustrated to GET A GRIP and how masterbation IS FOR BOYS AND NOT MEN - how the fuck would they know who masterbation is for and there is no age limit on self gratification and actually - THE BEST SEX IS SOLO MASTERBATION and in older men, it actually helps to wank at least 2 or 3 times a week to keep the prostate clear and yet women hate to think a man can satisfy himself and does not need her so - they treat sexuality as childish and put men down and so sex becomes wrong and bad when it is none of these.

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Dear John & Hamilton Hall:

I found out my wfe was being unfaithful to me. She was meeting this guy anything between 2 and 5 times a week while I was at work. She was giving him what I had been complaining about a lack of - SEX - and SHE KNEW it was a problem between us as she was always with a fucking headache or womens problem and sex was barely 3 or 4 times a YEAR and here she was giving it away several times A WEEK to a complete stranger she met on Tinder, and I found her profile and followed her actions for several months before I told her to get the fuck out of MY HOUSE - and I had all the divorce papers ready.

( My House is aCtually in my Mothers name, so she won't be getting anything out of me as even my car is a company car... )

*** I WAS FURIOUS ***

FOR YEARS the lack of sex between us has been a problem, a problem we discussed and she kept making excuses for her complete lack of interest and blaming the kids, headaches and mentrual cycles only goes so far and then - after discovering she was being more that happy to get fucked by someone else, it was obvious she just didn't want sex with me, while dragging me along FOR FUCKING YEARS believing it was her health that was the problem and there's me being all understanding and becoming more and more sexually fucked up trying to be the good understanding husband, and this fucking whore was fucKing 3 - 5 times A WEEK. The fucking cunt.

I DIVORCED HER. She ended up with nothing. Her fuck buddy was NOT INTERESTED once she was free and available and he dumped her so fast. She is now in a council studio flat, has had to go back to work after 15 years not working and where I FUCKING KEPT THE BITCH - and she complains she is unhappy and wants to come home and there is no way is hell.

This was over 5 years ago now and it took me a very long time to even begin to forgive her for the mental and physical cruelty she put me through - and she is sure paying the price now. In her mid 50's, she is over weight and unnatractive and complains no man wants her, and my answer is - TOUGH SHIT.

I HATE HER FOR WHAT SHE DID AND I HATE HER CONTINUED ARROGANCE THAT SHE DID NOTHING WRONG.

After the mental cruelty she put me through and the feeling of being wrong and dirty for wanting sex - her actions deserve all she gets and I do not feel anything for her, no sympathy, no regrets, nothing, just a cold heart and a regret that I wasted so many years with her.

I discovered the gay side of sex and I have never looked back for while I am in my 50's, I seem to be able to pull the younguns and have been enjoying a superb sex life for the first time in my life and I am - actually - glad she caused this to happen as it introduced me to my new and exciting life but the games these women play, the manipulation and the control they oull using sex as a weapon, a lever, to twist that kiife in and make their man behave with the promise of sex - which is usually unforthcoming, and the man, as always, goes without and then women wonder why it is so hard these days to find a date - why over 80% of men between 18 and 45 and NOT DATING as the whole gambit is jst to frai=ught with disaster caused and created by these women who want more and mor eof your blood than is healthy.

Single or gay is best...

Chris M.F.

JB ANSWERS:-

In answer to this piece above I would point out that she seems to have everything the way she wants it and the husband is the one doing all the 'giving way - or - giving in' to his wifes tears as nothing comes from talking and nothing changes - so - what is the point ? A mutual conversation on difficult subjects IS the only way forward BUT - and it is a BIG but - BOTH PARTIES HAVE TO LISTEN AND ADHERE TO WHAT COMES OUT FROM THE TALKS, and if one agrees and then does nothing about changing:- Then what was the point in the talk ?

If she goes to Couples Counselling and starts to be a little warmer, he cannot trust that this is genuine or that she is doing it because the therapist told her to.

Millions of married men live lives that are sexually / emotionally and physically starving them to death.

I appreciate men and women have very different sexual desires and needs, and women have ' womens problems' - and it is never good to force your partner to do anything they do not want to do, but that goes two ways. If wifey doesn't want sex and the husband is left frustrated and angry then she has it all her way - she has won - and he looses - and this builds resentment, anger and causes and creates sexual dysfunchion and this can lead to sexual abuse and rape. And again, this goes two ways. Men also need to be in the mood ( which is basically all the time ) and women need to appreciate that men and women are different and that if a wife witholds sex from the husband:- as my Mother did towards my Father and as MILLIONS of wives do, in order to punnish, get what they want, control and dominate the husband using sex as a tool to gain that control - THAT is why so many relationships fail - why so many men find sex elsewhere and why so many women find themselves alone and complaining there is no man in her life when so many men have had it with women when it is very often women who cause and create the problems.

res on Tinder, all glammed upo and looki

I am SO GLAD I AM GAY.

Men want sex. A LOT of the time.

Women don't.

This causes problems.

EASY ANSWER:-

OPEN RELATIONSHIP - As if the wife is not in the mood, then if he could go - with wifes permission - and get laid and return home ' de spunked'- No argument - no hassle - no anger and life continues :- BUT if he did, Wifey would scream the fucking house down and divorce and take the house, car and kids and he would be made to feel so guilty when he was just sexually frustrated and DESPERATE for some loving affectionate sexuality - NOT FOUND AT HOME - and he is seen as the immature one who couldn't hold his desires.

I have heard this thousands of times - THOUSANDS - and the wife makes the man feel insecure and childlike just because he wants sex. The level of patronising - belittling and blatant obnoxious behaviour I personally have seen and witnessed from a wife towards he husband, seems more filled with hate and anger than love and affection and yet they stay together because of the kids ...

BULLSHIT.

There is a lot wrong with how men and women see each other as sexual partners as both have VERY different views, desires, wants and expectations, whereas two men together - NO SUCH HASSLE ...

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In 2022, there were 80,057 divorces in England and Wales, a 29.5% decrease from 2021, marking the lowest number since 1971.

Divorce rates across the broader UK currently hover at around 42%, with an average marriage length of just under 13 years.

While opposite-sex ( straight ) divorces decreased,

Female same-sex couples have consistently accounted for a higher proportion of same-sex divorces (69% in 2022)

Compared to male to male same sex relationships who have the lowest.

Just goes to show.

Where there is a woman involved - PROBLEMS ARISE and the only married relationship that has the least divorces, are two gay men - NO WOMEN INVOLVED... NO WONDER !!!

HOWEVER

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Higher Success Rates:

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Broader Focus: Male-dominated peace tables often focus only on territorial and military gains, while women negotiators frequently address crucial social, economic, and humanitarian issues.

Sustainable Outcomes: Research from the Council on Foreign Relations shows that gender equality directly reduces violent conflict and lowers the likelihood of military force being used. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]

Despite their proven effectiveness, women remain heavily underrepresented in formal peace processes, making up a fraction of negotiators globally. You can explore the Council on Foreign Relations shows that gender equality directly reduces violent conflict and lowers the likelihood of military force being used.

Despite their proven effectiveness, women remain heavily underrepresented in formal peace processes, making up a fraction of negotiators globally. You can explore th the data and official frameworks on UN Women.

Woman are the strong ones, the mature ones and the ones who should lead - not men. But women also need to stop the patronising beluttling of men and stop treating us as children as that just gets nowhere at all.

Men are fools, Fools for tollerating bad attitude, Fools for allowing it in the fist place and fools for assuming it means that if they tow the line, they might get their dick wet - when we all know - that is a foolish dream.

Time to think from above the groin guys...

Men need to grow up.

Women need to stop being so condescending and stop actng like Karens.

John Bellamy

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