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e mails from you - and thanks

When you do anything in life, it is always wonderful when it is appreciated. Whatever it may be. Here are a few of the recent e mails received from some of you. And thanks. Every word is always greatly appreciated.

John Bellamy

oh and if you read down to the bottom of the page there is a pleasant surprise for you...


Dear John,

Glad to see you are “hanging” in there after all the horrors of this past year. Carl and I have cancelled plans for last year and this year “just in case.” Our second vaccination was yesterday, Pfizer, with no side effects for either shot. Perhaps I’ll be able to visit again, if not this late fall, then perhaps next late spring. My visits to Hammy Hall and with you have been so much fun.

Wishing you the very best,

Hal - Maine - USA


Hi John: Love the newsletter this week. The Sex Workers piece I read with great interest ( and a hard on ) and loved the photo section on Balls. Keep it up John, I read everything you send. Mark ( London )


John. Do you get how many would like to have your lifestyle. Always out as a gay man. Never had problems, Family all knew. Worked as a gay prostitute. Own a clothing optional men only hotel place. Live an out gay existance with nudity around other men. Sex when you like. What an amazing life you have created for yourself and how millions must envy in countries where it is not legal or as easy. The bonus is that you offer all what you do for no money profit, to help others less monied. Complete admiration and respect. It is so hard to be out and gay here. Joseph ( Tel Aviv-Yafo, Israel )


Thank you, John, for your wonderful sex-worker story and for the balls pics. Absolutely stunning and horny!

Greetings from Brussels,



Long time no see - so long 😍😍 I always remember our visiting you and the sharing, must be 15+years ago now when you had your group. I still share your “Mission not Impossible “

Sending you love, blessings and joy and wanting to rekindle our own ❤️2❤️ with this beautiful YouTube with Robert Holden in deep dialogue with Stewart Pearce

Always with love



Although I've moved back to New York, I would still like to receive your emails and perhaps visit one day. Thanks. Michael


I live in Warsaw Poland. Moved here from Hastngs 3 years ago. There was a direct floght from Bournemouth that seems to have stopped during Covid. Found you cruising the web and loved what I saw. Must come visit with my Polish boyfriend. Please send me your Blog each time and thanks. Roland.


So sad we were forced to cancell our trip to stay with you. Sad you were forced to close. Sad flights to the UK were cancelled. Sad for the world under this pandemic. We will visit as soon as we can as we don't want to spend 10 days in lockdown on arrival. Later in the season we will return. Keep the faith John. Keep the faith. Eric ( Barcelona )


As a sex worker myself I enjoyed your piece this week about the biz. It fucked me up after a few years and took me a long time to come to terms with having sex for nothing , no financial reward at the end of it and it fucked me up emotionally as well. Having read your Blog and stayed at your place once a long time ao, and after paying attention to your rambling wisdoms, I was able to turn it all around and see the biz different and made some changes as you suggested and managed to save £45,000 in under 18 months and have you to thank for that. I was seeing it all wrong and your redirection helped. Thanks John. I owe you. Andy ( London )


Hi Juan: Read your site for some years. So good you have out lifestyle, Wish I could . Hard in Mexico. Boyfriend was arrested and beaten by police for life of being gay. Too much corruption here. Need to pay police for protection and leave us alone. Lucky you for life plan. Out, gay, posess gay venue with nude men. It is mirage to me. Dream time.

Alejandro. Tabasco. Mexico


Great reading each week John. I look forward to my Sunday read of your Newsletter Blog. Love the pictures and I did spot you in the Balls Picture piece... You cannot escape or hide John, you are too well known. Richard. ( Tottenham )


As soon as we can we will be there. After the year we have had with shutdowns and stuck at home alone, many will need your RECOVEY weekends and well